Hey so I already got some feed back from some non-christian guys and they say I'd better learn to put out or be left behind. Personally it's not that I don't want to kiss it's more so that I want to wait and allow my husband to be the first. Anyway I want to know what Christian guys think if they think it's lame or if it's something they would want their wives saving for them?
2006-10-05 11:33:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, I better clarify this. I haven't kissed a guy yet because I have this romatic fairy tale of waiting and giving it all to my future hubby. It's not that I think kissing is bad but I am such a hard core romantic that I want this whole fairy tale of waiting for my prince and having the kiss that is like the cherry on the top of the ice cream.
2006-10-05 11:41:45 · update #1
There is nothing wrong in my eyes about kissing. However; if that is something you wish to save then it needs to be respected. It's different from the norm; but not neccessarily strange. I once had a girlfriend that didn't want to kiss. It was cool. She is now an ordained evangelist.
2006-10-05 11:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss is a kiss. It can mean a lot or a little. What you should really be saving for your husband is your sexuality. Kiss? Not so much. You kiss your parents, grandparents, babies, siblings....???? Although I am not saying give it away freely. If it means that much to you then save it for the select few. You shouldn't have to put out for someone to keep caring about you.
2006-10-05 18:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, this is not fantasy. You got to go with the common flow of life and society. Things won't turn out the way how your fairy tale would go. Sooner or later, the guy don't even want to be with you because they are restricted to show there feelings. for me, I hate that, I like expressing myself
2006-10-05 19:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, putting out is not kissing. Kissing is ok but save the real putting out for someone you really care about
2006-10-05 18:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't see anything wrong with kissing. However, abstinence is important. I don't know if the Bible says anything about kissing, so I would leave that up to you. But the Bible does say that premarital sex is a sin.
2006-10-05 18:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by penguinluvinman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christian guys have wholesome, honest and true values. Waiting to have your husband be your first is very honorable. However, your question si more psychological. If you'd give it a try, you'll find that your heathen area gets extremely excited and hot, then it'll become hard to breathe. Suddenly, you'll find yourself in the throws of passion taking a hot load of love juice in your tweeter, and soon, satan's bread will be rising in your oven. Please, give in to the temptation. Sin and sex are sooooooovery good. Invite the devil in to your life and ...OOOOHHHHHHHHHHH!
2006-10-05 18:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a really stupid fairy tale...just put out already and quit being a prude.
2006-10-05 18:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
look the way it works is kiss and don't tell **** you can tell your man or what ever that your into that he is the 1st to be kissed by you
2006-10-05 18:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't kiss and ppl like it cuz it saves the moment! so just move on if they don't wanna deal wit it
2006-10-05 18:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by N3W Y0RKZ B@Bii GURL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you lose by kissing? you may gain a little practise for sure
2006-10-05 18:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋