if you had a friend that was a guy and you were moderatley attracted to him and the situation came up where he showed you his penis, just as a joke or messing around or a dare or something. and if he was small would you lose respect for him or see him as less of a man and not be somewhat attracted to him. what if he was big would you gain repect for him? just curious to get a female perspective on this. the reason i ask this is because me and a few friends are gonna play stip poker with some friends of ares that are girls.
2006-10-05 11:31:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Penis SIZE has absolutely nothing to do with losing/getting respect. Now SHOWING it (no matter what the size is) to someone who doesn't want to see it, that's a different issue, that might make some people lose respect real fast. If you're insecure about your manhood, maybe it would be wise you not play strip poker, yea?
2006-10-05 11:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the small penis guy i wouldn't loose respect for because most times they make the best lovers the big penis guys have more to worry about because they tend to come fast. have fun and keep an open mind
2006-10-05 11:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Valencia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was soft and you saw it and it looked small then that's really no indication of how big it can get, however, if it was hard and you saw it and it was still small then, yeah, i suppose i'd personally be a little disappointed. that probably sounds awful, i know. but if you were just friends anyway, then he'll never need to know how you feel about that. if you don't want to be judged then you don't reveal such intimate things (or parts) about yourself! if it was big, i might be impressed, but it depends if you want to take the friendship further or not. (sorry i hate to correct your spelling, but your word "ares" confused me, you mean "friends of OURS") :)
2006-10-05 11:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by MrsTee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's hard to say. i think i'd lose respect for you if you'd play strip poker in front of a ton of chicks and guys. but if it was a few people in a tight-knit group, it wouldn't matter if you were small or big. sometimes.
2006-10-05 11:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heya. you should not lose respect of this guy cause he is your frined and you should be normal around him and stay the way you have always been acting round him. strip poker is a fun game and most people just laugh it off and dont mention it after you play it. trust me cause i have played it and i had 2 pull out cause i got embarssed.
2006-10-05 11:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sandeep D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would neither gain nor lose respect for him, regardless of his size. If he kept flashing it around when it was unnecessary, that would be rude and a little irritating, but there would be no loss or gain of respect.
2006-10-05 11:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although a guy may be small in an unaroused state - he could be very normal in an aroused state. (Exception being if he's REALLY big then of course, he will be bigger than normal in an aroused state). But, remember, size is only part of it - it's how he uses what he has.
2006-10-05 11:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hoping that u 're really good @ poker!!! moderately attracted to the guy...no...i don't think anything would change. i mean as it stands, i like him for him not for the size of his penis...now...he's not my bf...have a good game. stip away!
2006-10-05 11:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by Snki55ed Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only lose respect for him because he would disrespect me by showing me his private part. It's not something appropriate for a friend to do.
2006-10-05 11:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dulce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? It wouldn't matter to me at all how big or small he was. How much I respected him wouldn't change at all no matter the size of his penis.
2006-10-05 11:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by bandbeef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋