Me and this boy were going out since april and then he left and we got back together when he came back and then were talkin alot and he would call me every day asked me did i love him and i told him i dont kno wat it mean to b n love but i do love you and then he came over to my house one day and i always tell him to be real with me and he came because he wanted to get some but i thought he was just comin 2 c me we were kissin and touchin each other and then he tryed to have sex with me but i wouldnt let him i told him i didnt belive in sex before marrage and now he has not called me in 5 days and we talked to day for about 3 minutes and i asked him y he wasnt callin me and he said he was busy wat do i do?????
2006-10-05 11:28:12 · 7 answers · asked by peace l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For a girl love means emotional attachment
For a guy love means sex (especially a teenager)
When he said he loved you he was really asking for you to share yourself with him sexually. When you said it back he felt he had permission. Now, he's confused why you didn't and you're confused that he tried.
What to do: You explain what loves means to you.
Welcome to the crazy world of relationships. I hope you make it ok. You'll do just fine.
2006-10-05 11:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by dww32720 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget him. He's only interested in sleeping with you and if you dont believe in that and continues to push it then he doesn't care about you. You deserve better. You deserve a man who respects your decisions. Dump him. Now
2006-10-05 18:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by clea_duvall_fan@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say that this guy is not interested in a real relationship, he is only interested in sex. Forget him - dump him and move on - you deserve better!
2006-10-05 18:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All this player is doing is looking for a booty call. Drop him like a bad habit and find you a real man who respects you and is willing to wait for marriage.
2006-10-05 18:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. It is completely obvious he was just saying all of that in hopes of having sex with you. He doesn't respect you or even like you. Ditch him quick and move on.
2006-10-05 18:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by Amber L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You know in your heart what to do. Just do it. And good for you having morals!
2006-10-05 18:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by hazydaise13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch his ***, all he wants is sex. go find somebody else. You are not worth his time, trust me he is thinking like that.
2006-10-05 18:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋