i am pretty but i dont do fashion liek other gurls so no1 at skool is ttracted to me..how shud i change ma self that guys die for me lol...
2006-10-05 11:27:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't try change yourself to make other people like you. If they don't like you for who you are...then screw them! The problem with changing to please another person is that you're still the same inside. Sure...you could cut your hair...or change the color. Or you could buy new clothes. Or you could put on different make-up. But all in all...those things are simply materialistic...and they mean nothing. You have to be ok with who you are before other people will even think twice about being attracted to you. If you're a decent person then it doesn't matter what you wear. And you can't "make" someone like you. They either do...or they don't. I honestly think that you should just be the person you are...and sooner or later someone will notice you for the simple fact that you are different and not like all the other "Barbie doll" chicks out there. But this is just my opinion. I guess you have to do what makes you happy. Just remember...if everyone was supposed to be the same...then we would all be programmed the same. I hope that helps! =)
2006-10-05 11:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by metalchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-05 18:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fashion and doll up is just an appearance. Just be yourself, you don't have to be very fashionable or put tons of makeup to attract guys. If you want to improve your appearance, just a bit will do, don't over do it. A pinch of salt to food makes it tasty, too much of it spoils it.
2006-10-06 03:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you? Changing yourself is only deceiving your own image of who you really are. You are also not respecting who you are yourself. Learn to respect yourself before getting a guy. don't change for anything or anybody, just be who you are. I am sure out of a millions and trillions of guys out there, they find you attractive.
2006-10-05 18:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋