I have a crush with this italian girl but i don't know what should i do. She's is in italy.I'm in UK.i've known her during the summer .We went to the same summer school.We had spent a great time together in UK.then she went back to her country when summer finishes.Now we are always chatin thru the messenger.What should i do?Should i go to italy this december?when i ask she replied she wants to see me.and then she says that she is looking forward to see me if i come.i don't know whether she wants to be with me or not.i don't know how to ask her.Maybe i'm just a friend or something else.But the main thing i want know what should i ask her next IN MESSENGER ?can you tell me what to do?Please Help me.Thanks i'm in love.
2006-10-05 11:22:06 · 18 answers · asked by Zi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a lot to consider about this. If you did go to Italy where would you stay? How do your parents feel about this? How does her parents feel about this? And how old are you both? If you are only young then maybe you should be asking your parents for advise as to whether it is alright for you to go. And I think some of these questions are what you should message her with next!
2006-10-05 11:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-05 11:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Summer lovin got me so fast...... sorry just reminded me of Grease the movie! Anyways seriously I think asking her by phone if you can would be a little more appropriate, but these days everything is done by text or im's. I've had one of those relationships it definitely won't work long distance well, but it also depends how old you guys are and if it's true love you'll make it through anything, some of the toughest times in relationships is what make them the best relationships you'll ever have. You need to establish if it's a friendship or more then just listen to your heart and never be afraid to tell her what you feel because you may regret it. I wish the best for you!
2006-10-05 11:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, this is very cute
well, maybe you ask her something like "would you like me to come and see you in December"?
do not forget that if you do not live in the same country, you two "being together" is not very easy at this stage
also, consider your personal circumstances (for both of you): what sort of commitments do you have where you live? how flexible are you?
distance and time may make the story difficult, as you know.
so you just want to have this in the back of your mind to avoid disapointment
all the best to you!
2006-10-05 11:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-05 11:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she thinks it is a good idea, for the two of you getting together in December? Let the ball be in her court. Just take things slow, and see how the friendship goes.
2006-10-05 11:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definetly shouldn't ask her out by IMing her on Messenger, its lame, not romantic. You should fly over to Italy, and romantically ask her if she wanted to be your girlfriend. Maybe set up some candles, and light up the mood. She'll probably say yes. Good luck!
2006-10-05 11:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by exxohh<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! try to get out whats in her heart for u..Try this... tell her some girl has proposed you but ur not happy bout it coz she is not the kind of person you like... this gives her a chance to ask what kind of person u like...take advantage give clues and as soon as u sense something positive dont wait for a moment express your feelings .... you will succeed....
all the best.........
2006-10-05 11:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by m9rocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you prefer him and you're having that 'nearly kiss' second and also you wish to seal the deal you must allow him realize it could be ok with you if he did kiss you. He is performing that means due to the fact he needs to however he's being respectful and possibly a little bit shy so he's looking forward to your lead. Take it!
2016-08-29 07:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by bachinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush into things. Go see her on your break and if you still have things in common then move forward. Dont start a long distance relationship and have it end before you two get to see eachother again.
2006-10-05 11:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋