i'm a very pretty woman. and tons of men hit on me but never ask me out! some people say I have a mean look on my face, but I have all that a man wants a face like christina millian and one of those "video"bodies a small waist with a bigger but than j lo. but slim all over. I would love to have a boyfriend adn I just got out of a nine year relationship but I have no idea where to find a guy here in ny (not a club!) anyway. men: if you see a stunningly attractive woman will you talk to her? or are you too intimidated? women do not answer. I need a mans pov
2006-10-05 11:11:04 · 16 answers · asked by cinnamon43212002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I UNDERSTAND how you feel. I am in the same position. Be patient. When the time is right, it will HAPPEN.
2006-10-05 11:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not that I'm a man, but I've read that if you're having trouble dating, you should cultivate more friendships with women.
And I notice you said you have all a guy wants...and all you mentioned was physical appearance stuff. Geez, men can be dogs, but do you really think that's *all* they want? Clearly, it's not enough if you're not getting dates. So find some female friends to ask about what you're doing wrong. I can tell you right now that you might have a *little* attitude problem...narcissism, anyone? Entitlement? And why bother asking guys what you're doing wrong? You already said they won't talk to you.
Do you not want to talk to women about this because you know they're going to call you on all your bullsh!t?
2006-10-05 18:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am willing to say hi or try to carry a conversation.But as far as asking you out - probably not.I'm not scared to say that I'd definately be too intimidated for that.It takes me a while to feel that comfortable with people.Especially the attractive ones.
2006-10-05 18:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by taterhead30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
....well first off, there is more to a relationship than looks. and if i saw u, i would approach u in a different way cuz I KNOW THAT U GET HIT ON ALL DAY EVERYDAY....but to answer ur question, the guys u run into are slack as hell OR you may be shallow. i assume that ur not....:) send a pic or 2 and let ya know
2006-10-05 18:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tray Augustus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try taking your fate into your own hands by asking them out instead? Why wait for the other person to make the first move? The worst thing that can happen is that they say no.
2006-10-05 18:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand men. When we see a woman we feel like she is the perfect woman but we are scared to ask her out. Maybe that is what is happening to you
2006-10-05 18:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they like to hit on u cus ure cute,but maybe you're not their type.some pple like to play around with a girl cus she's cute or sumthing but when it comes down to a serious realtionship,they cant b/c something is wrong.maybe u need to make the first move.
2006-10-05 18:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by iNeedhelp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something must not look very inviting. Could be body language or what come out of your mouth.
2006-10-05 18:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i try to start a friendship and if your attractive i am first nervous but then open up i take it slow and like to do fun things and i usually like to try new things its probably hard for guys thatare afraid of being shut down i am .
2006-10-05 18:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by roadrunner_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find someone who thinks they are attractive, very unattractive... but then thats just me. Try a bit of modesty, maybe some other guys are like me.
2006-10-05 18:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by stewie2277 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋