ive tried to have something more than just friends with this guy before but he never wants to take it to the next level. everytime we stop talking and then starting hanging out again, he acts like a new guy and i think there could be a chance. we hung out last night adn i need to make a decision whether to ditch him forever and forget ever having anytthing more with him or stick with it and see what could happen?
2006-10-05 11:04:16 · 9 answers · asked by SweetChildofMine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also dont want to be passive and wait for him...its not all about the guy making the first move anymore but i agree with most answers that hes not worth it...thanks!
2006-10-05 13:09:59 · update #1
"ditch him" isn't the Q ... its the answer
2006-10-05 11:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Milos K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... if a guy is interested in you and wants to take it to the next level he WILL make it known to you or at least you would know, if you need to work on it this hard then it is not meant to be.. committment is never forced and it has to come from him.... if he hasn't made any progress then chances are he doesn't want to take it to the next level and you're better off without, you can continue to be friends (only no physical touch) and in the mean time you can date other guys.. hey we're not getting any younger and the clock is ticking.. if this guy is not all there for you... then find someone who will ... life is fun and has a lot to offer you go out there and meet the one who is dying for your attention and time and treats you like a princess ... you deserve it....
2006-10-05 11:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Soonie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your intuition, That is why you need to take it slow, that way you can learn how a person is, what he likes, and what kind of mood swings he has, as what just gets on your nerves about him (smile) This all comes with time, Now if you do not want to waste any more time and energy on this relationship, move on, but you have to do the same thing, take your time.
2006-10-05 11:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even Stevie Wonder can see it and he is blind. He is not into you. Wake up and smell the coffee. If he was into to he would have no problems taking it to the next level. He only sees you as a buddy and not as someone he wants to build a relationship with . I don't mean to be harsh but you need to open up your eyes and ditch him.
2006-10-05 11:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe stick with him with nothing more in mind than friendship. Maybe that is what will work best for you two. You should push anything and if you've tried several times then it probably isn't going to go down that path.
2006-10-05 11:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ the above answer...life is too short to be hanging on to somthing that may not happen...Maybe it's just not meant to happen now...could be your meant to be together when you're in the nursing home cleaning each other's dentures! ;)
2006-10-05 11:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by suzeq19642003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have some one ask if he likes you and if he says no then forget him you never know he might miss not being around you so much
2006-10-05 11:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts different every time then I don't think you stand much of a chance.
2006-10-05 11:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him. hes probably just being a shy geek.
2006-10-05 11:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by surferdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋