Every time I read a question that concerns a guy and the size of his penis the most typical answer is of course..." its all about the way you use it", or "its not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean" Would one of you ladies explain exactly how you girls wants us to use it, or what this motion in the ocean" is that you all crave so much... Now don't get me wrong I am fine as far as that area goes but I'm curious to see if you ladies can actually articulate how you want us to move while we are having sex or how exactly you want us to "use it" to clear up the old myth of what you are talking about when you reply with these types of answers. If you are able to do this Im sure it will help out any girlfriend of any guy that is readingyour answers. Hey I might learn something, doubt it, but maybe... thanks for your answers ladies ;)
2006-10-05 11:04:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The key thing is for the guy to be paying attention to the woman. Notice how she reacts to things that you do. What is her body languauge and facial expression. Talk to her and get her talking to you so that she will tell you what she likes and doesn't like. The "motion" is going to be different for different ones. You need to be empathetic and pick up on what she is feeling and communicate with her. Too many guys get caught up in what they enjoy and stop noticing the subtleties of her reactions.
2006-10-05 11:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know how to move the right way then of course size doesn't matter. Get it? The motion of the ocean waves is the rhythm and no matter the size of the boat, Means the size of your penis.... Now do you understand? It's like this if you can't dance do you go out on the dance floor? Most men that can't dance lack the motion in their ocean! Right Girls?
2006-10-05 11:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, every woman is built differently. If you learn nothing else about women, learn that. Take the most universally touted "truths" about what women like or don't like, and you'll find at least one exception within 50 miles of you.
Second of all, have you considered trying to pleasure a woman in ways that don't involve your genitalia? God gave you hands and a tongue as well. I'll gladly take an underendowed male if he knows how to use his other tools - I can count on two fingers the number of times I've climaxed from penetration alone.
Third, try to learn some positions that are good for G-spot stimulation, or modify the ones you know so that you have a better chance of hitting it (putting a pillow under the girl's hips during missionary is a good mod). Those two times penetration was enough for me, there was some serious G-stim going on.
2006-10-05 11:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so it depends on a lot of things. Some women simply cannot fit a large penis, while others only want size. A man with a smaller penis is better equipped to stimulate the clitorus and g-spot, especially in rear entry positions, while a man with a larger penis is better for.... energetic....thrusting....
It depends on what your woman is into. I can't take over eight inches, so hearing about men who are nine or ten inches makes me a little queasy, but I tend to like energetic thrusting more than I do targeted stimulation. But that's just me.
I hope no one reports me for being graphic...
2006-10-05 11:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by gheefreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we say its not the size but how u use it means...just because you are well endowed dont mean the sex will be good. its not all about "in -n- out" type thing, you have to be able to hit damn near everything our at least try to. and the trying part is always the best because...i dont know just is lol. So in my opinion big or small it u cant work that joy stick than its no fun.
2006-10-05 11:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend and this has worked for me with every girl I have ever been with, Ask the girl what she wants. Each girls is different and has different likes. As it was reported in 20/20 an orgasm for a woman is 90% in her head. Don't worry girls wont be shy about telling you what to do to satisfy them.
2006-10-05 11:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Larry A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it basically means u have to be gud at sex and then the size of ur penis dnt matter. its how good the orgasms are not how far it goes up
2006-10-05 11:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curious my ****, you need to know how to use it, this is a cover up!!! Well, size don`t matter, its all down to technique, some of you have it, some of you don`t, that`s life!!
2006-10-05 11:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do more then just having sex in just the standard postion switch it around we are saying that if you know how to use it more then you were taught to its fine if your a little smaller then average
2006-10-05 11:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by aleym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iono exactly how he moves but my feonce has a smaller dick than one of my ex's and he is alot better in bed its just the way he moves his hips. its hard to explain but its true.
2006-10-05 11:08:50 · answer #10 · answered by baby doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋