ok i am in 6th grade and a guy i like asked me out and i havent told my mom yet cuz shes not home and when she asks how my day was,should i say fine,caspian asked me out today or what should i say i need help
2006-10-05 10:40:06 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be truthful you know it makes sense
2006-10-05 10:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mum. When this happened with my daughter she first asked me questions like 'is it ok to talk to you about love and boyfriends and things?'. Once she was satisfied that she wasn't out of order and that I was just going to tell her what she needed to know about life, she told me that a boy had asked her out, what did it mean, what did she have to do, and should she go. I was happy that she could come to me before anyone else. ( She's 11, and decided that he is not the boy for her!). Similarly with my son, anything he wanted to know he asked, and got told in a non embarassing way. I would have thought most mums would be glad to have an open and honest chat with their child, and feel included in their growing-up life. It's much safer for you as well! Talk to mum!
2006-10-05 14:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by yvonne c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Say you like Caspian and that he asked you out and that you would like her permission to go. If she freaks or refuses, do not get mad. Talk it out with her try to come to a compromise. Parents are just kids who have grown up we have been through everything that you are going through now. I hope this helps you. If she says no you still have plenty of time how old are you 12, your best years are still ahead of you, okay.
2006-10-05 10:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by lizzy tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how happy you are today as someone you like has asked you out. What can she say? she should be happy for you as it is all part of growing up, but if you do go out with him let your mum meet him as soon as you can to put her mind at ease that he is a responsible guy. It may sound corny but it often keeps mum on side!
2006-10-05 10:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go up to her, smile, and say that you need her advice!!! Tell her that a boy has asked you out. Tell her how you feel about him, and that you are not sure if you should! She will love it! She will be flattered that you care about her enough to ask her opinion! She will also stand next to you if things should get sticky!!! You love your mum, share these things with her!!! Good luck with it!
2006-10-05 10:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in 6th grade. A bit young for dating. Tell your Mother. She has a right to know everything in your life.
2006-10-05 10:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the sixth grade you do not need to have any boys on your mind, and yes you should tell your mother, do not make it a habit of hiding things from her. SHe will be the only true friend that you have.
2006-10-05 10:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would work for me! If I was your mom I mean. When I ask how your day was, you just tell me how it was! It's honest and to the point! If she has any concerns with it then she can bring them up right then and there. Good luck sweety :)
2006-10-05 10:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with your mom. She will probably be excited for you. If this is the first time you have been asked out though she might just cry. That would mean her baby is growing up. Good luck!!!
2006-10-05 10:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by copswife93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u get on wit ur mum den u shud go ahead and tell her its gud 2 get it out in da open at da strt rather dan lie and av 2 cover for urself. on the other hand if ur relationship wit ur mum isnt as strong den mayb its best not 2 tell yet til it gets serious. its all up 2 whether ur comfortable wit telling her or not i cant choose for u dear its up 2 u. hope that helps in any way!
2006-10-05 10:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by lisabob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need help with this? Why don't you just tell your mom the truth.....that's what's wrong with today's youth, they think they're going to get in trouble so they lie and when their parents find out they end up getting in more trouble!!
2006-10-05 10:47:43 · answer #11 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋