I left my ex for the guy I'm with now. My ex never treated me bad,and was great to my son. My son and I both were in love with him. We got along all right and everything. But my ex could not keep a job and we had split up for about 2 weeks. We were still together just not living together. One night I was over at my buddy's house drinking and I met this other guy. This guy has a job a car and I love his personality. So, I left my ex for this new boyfriend(that I'm still with). This new guy is awesome. I have never been with somebody and felt like I could talk to them like they were my best friend. So, the problem is- My ex is still in love with me I think. He'll call me and pretend to want to know about my son, but then he'll start talking **** about my new b/f and me. He does not know this guy at all. I want my ex to be there for my son and I would like to be friends with him but he keeps acting all crazy. And saying my new guy is gonna hurt me and my son. It's really a stressful thing
2006-10-05 10:38:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that if he really cares about you and your son..he'll be a man and grow up..and stop acting like an #$@
tell him that you would like to be his friend and for your son to keep in contact with him..but it is up to him to change
2006-10-05 10:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by sally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're in a nasty position to him. He acted nice to you and your son. You changed him with something better. I don't think you should expect some other kind of behavior from him right now. He has a point in doing this. But, with time, he will maybe meet someone else and he will forget the bads in the past, and then ... maybe ... you will be friends. But right now, I think you should let it like that.
2006-10-05 10:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by John C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut the ex off. Don't call, don't answer when he calls, tell him you need him to respect your decisions. If he won't, well, that should tell you something, shouldn't it? It'll be better for you, and, most importantly, better for your son. Your son has to be number one in your life right now.
2006-10-05 10:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mister_Mister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him cool down. tell him that u don't want to b enemyz but friends. tell him that ur a shallow girl that needs money and cares less about family. tell him that ur an egocentric person that only cares about guys with jobs and cars. oh wait, don't tell him that. just tell him to cool down.
2006-10-05 10:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by James Blond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your decision, Kick his *** out of your life or continue to take his ****. I really is up to you. Tell him to move on.
2006-10-05 10:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k i totally wanted to answer this one cuz it isn't like highschool wanna be soap opera-- but i really didn't get a question out of it... so i tried but.. sorry i couldn't answer something that wasn't asked
2006-10-05 10:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reap what you sow you mercenary wh@re x God Bless You
2006-10-05 10:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about stress
2006-10-05 10:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋