my boyfriend always cheat on me and lie at me about it and give me hell lots of excuses ,, he always say he loves me and can't live without me but after he say it he either go out with another girl or call another girl behind my back ,, i know that he is just playing with them and nothing serious ,, and everyone knew that i'm his gf ..but ...
so, does he realy love me ??
2006-10-05 10:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by Nicholet 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r all right,, but i'm gonna tell u something that u'll call me crazy for it !!! after a while at the begining of our relation i knew he will cheat me so i make a deal with him that he is allowed to do all what want with other girls but must tell me about it !!! i didn't expect that once i allow him to cheat on me he'll run and do so without even telling me ! what shall i do now ?????
2006-10-05 10:37:21 · update #1
Sorry, but there could be about a million possible motives behind what your bf is doing. He may be testing you to see how you react, he might be hinting that he wants to break up, and maybe he's too afraid to do it himself, or he might just be "that kind of guy" who just can't have one girl in his life. If that last one is the case, and you really like him and he really likes you, and you can learn to not let it bother you so much, then things might be looking up for you guys. If not, then you should probably find someone else because he is definitely not acting like he means what he says. I know you've probably heard this a million times, but there are so many other guys out there. Most people have no problem finding someone else, with time of course, and thats usually because they look for people who wouldn't cause the same problems as their last. Hope I was able to help, and if your not happy, then something is wrong, and it really sounds like you are not the one to blame.
2006-10-05 10:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are a few things u should ask urself...like is he worth it? He might "love" u but not be "in love" with u. Soundz like he's just young and isn't ready to be in a committed relationship. He might be coming back to for comfort reasons...meaning he comes back cuz he knows that u aren't going anywhere; a sort of been there done that mentality. Y put up with his crap? U gotta look out for wat's best 4 u...at the end of the day that's all u have to rely on.
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2006-10-05 10:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope he doesn't and hes not going to change. Once a cheater always a cheater. The only question to ask yourself is if you can stay in a relationship like the one you have? If the answer is yes then you wouldn't be asking for help.
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2016-10-16 03:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that your boyfriend respects you as a person. I feel that without respect that someone can not truly love you. Someone who treats you terribly with such disregard for your feelings is not treating you with respect. I know this may be hard to hear but I don't think he loves you or he would not be hurting you like this.
2006-10-05 10:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh why are you asking this question does it seem like he does?? he cheats on you... OMG do wake up... if your letting him and staying with him, what is he doing right... I pray to god hes good in the sack?? Pls take some time and ask yourself... why would he do it?? How do I feel?? Is it possible for him to change??
2006-10-05 10:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by CoNsTaNt_FaNaTiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if he did he wouldn't be doing that hes trying to be a player and hes not and you might not thank its serious stuff but it will become serious quick the best thang for you to do is just get rid of him once a cheater always a cheater
2006-10-05 10:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by buck1189 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE MIGHT DO LOVE U, BUT HE DON'T RESPECT U AS A HIS WOMAN.SOME FEMALES DON'T CARE ANYTHING ABOUT A MAN HAVING A GIRL, LONG AS THEY GET WHAT THEY WANT, U NEED TO LEAVE HIM, HE IS NEVER GOING TO STOP CHEATING ON U.AND I HOPE U MAKE HIM US A CONDOM CAUSE HE SLEEPING WITH THEM OTHER GIRLS!
2006-10-05 10:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by breab360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!! i don't think so! you need to let him go, and if he's going to fool around he's not worth your time!
i know it's hard to let go, but you have to, if it's because you've been together for so long and you can't imagine life without him, then you have to move on!!!
2006-10-05 10:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋