If she's your wife then she knows you love her because you married her.
If you did something that you are trying to get forgiveness for you might want to buy flowers and give her a romantic evening out, or at home.
2006-10-05 10:15:29
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answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6
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There ia a book that I recently read entitled, "Building the affair-proof marriage" and although my husband and I have never had an affair we've both experienced the effects and uncertainty that an affair produces. We were both scared that each of us would one day be 'turned off' to one another. We read the book together and it is REALLY insightful. It says that men and women have about ten basic needs. The woman's top five needs are the man's latter five and vice versa, the man's top five are the woman's latter. The average woman's top need is for affection and the man's top need is sexual gratification and they both work together. Without signs of affection, the woman is less likey to respond to a man's advances for sex. Affection (according to the book) include (but aren't limited to since every woman is different) dinner, household chores, flowers, little tokens, cards, surprise phonecalls, taking a relaxing bath with one another, text messages, notes etc. You'll be surprised how close she'll feel to you. Your bond will become stronger and in turn your need for sexual gratification will surely be met! In turn, you're affair-proofing your marraige. The stronger the bond between you, the less likely either of you will look at greener grasses. Good luck!
2006-10-05 18:00:38
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answered by breezyb23 1
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Take her out to her favorite restaurant. But before you leave the house to go out to dinner buy her a rose or dozen hat ever your pocket book can handle.Let her order what ever she wants. Then after fo for a nice stroll in a nice park or along the beach holding hands. You can do other things like maybe help with cleaning the house or tell her how beautiful she looks even if she is wearing a t-shirt and jeans. Complement her on her cooking. Stuff like that and most of all tell her that you love her let her know what she means to her. Don't let her forget.
2006-10-05 17:23:39
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answered by chrissy20us 2
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That is the best thing I've ever heard. Most men won't admit that it is hard for them to show love.I think you should show her by being there for you & listening to her talk about whatever(even if it is dumb) Support her in her choices, Show her love by a nice bubble bath with candles around the tub. Maybe a back massage from time to time. Show her things that you would like to be done for yourself that show signs of love. Just whatever you guys enjoy about one another . Once again you the man cause you want to try to make that move in really showing her you care ,so you will do just fine!
2006-10-05 17:19:32
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answered by "karma" 4
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Just the little things matter.
Tell her how great she looks.
One day when you come home from work stop at the store and buy her a rose. Give her complements and go out of your way for her. You know when someone loves you when they say it to you but it means alot more when you show it.
2006-10-05 17:14:14
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answered by Boo8081 3
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Do little things for her--ie give her a break from the kids or cook dinner or do the dishes or bring her flowers or rub her back (without expecting sex unless she initiates it)...be generally nice, tell her she's pretty, she looks great in that outfit, touch her often (arm around her, etc) even in public, be proud that she's your wife, tell her that you are, TELL HER that you love her every time you leave the house and give her a kiss, and every time you get off the phone with her (and MEAN it), call her a pet name (Honey, Baby, etc)...stuff like that.
Overall, just be there for her, be nice to her, and treat her like she matters.
2006-10-05 17:15:26
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answered by pisceanwillow 4
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The rose is a good idea, but the real thing she wants is chocolate. Bring home a box for no reason other than to give her something. For that matter do anything just because it is for her.
Women love this stuff.
2006-10-05 17:16:44
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answered by my_iq_135 5
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Just let go of your ihibitions and do for her something that you would want now that doesnt mean make her a big steak burb than take her to the game you have been dieing to see. Do for her what the equivelent of that would be that movie she has been dieing to see. The dishes even just something that makes you unhappy for a sec. Give her that joy you are missing at that moment
2006-10-05 17:17:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Well dude, love isn't something thats easy to show for us men. But one thing I've found out, it's the little things, flowers, comments, opening the door for her. We know what we feel, we just have a hard time expressing it. But beleive me, the little things mean an awful lot.
2006-10-05 17:15:20
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answered by champion193cx 1
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Well you wooed her in to marrying you so what happened? give her lots of love and affection by doing little things for her that you wouldn't usually do,little surprises are wonderful try giving her some flowers or some chocs,and you could always try bathing with her and treating her to a body massage after with some nice smelling oils,or even baby oil and have lots of fun doing it
2006-10-05 17:21:37
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answered by amber_xx66 4
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