my sis in gr.8 and she has a boyfriend.( they're pretty seriouse for 8th graders)but she's gone to a new school and she's asked me (we're pretty tight) if it's ok if she dances with guys at her new schools dance? wat should i say? she and her bf are still tight because he lives close.
2006-10-05 10:10:48 · 16 answers · asked by basketball_dancediva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
dancing is just dancing (did footloose teach us nothing)
tell her to go for it!
2006-10-05 10:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by rachel o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is ok for her to dance with other guys at a school dance. She's only in 8th grade. Do you honestly think they are going to be together forever and get married? She is still young and needs to live her life and not be tied down. Tell her to dance and have fun!
2006-10-05 17:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by amanda725_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's a little kid for God sakes. Ask her boyfriend is it o.k.? come on. Lets be real.
Your parents should be involved in this. Being 8th graders and being so serious is extremely unhealthy. They are not going to stay together and of course she can dance with guys.
She's going to have a lot of boyfriends in life so this is kind of silly.
She's going to have a lot of boyfriends and unless she stops this extreme puppy love, she's going to be hurt very badly. Your parents need to stop this.
2006-10-05 17:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her of course it's alright to dance with other guys, just don't do any slow dances. This should satisfy her boyfriend and won't make her feel guilty
2006-10-05 17:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should ask her boyfriend if it is okay if she dances with her "guy friends" at her new school. He is the person who needs to say if it is okay or not - it's his feelings that are at risk of getting hurt.
2006-10-05 17:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by sos_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's only dancing. Does her boyfriend even care?
2006-10-05 17:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by gg101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would if i was her. i get on better with fellas.and it is natural to want to make new frnds and all that. if she is asking abt it it shows she means no harm so tell her its ok and not to be worring. did she get class president? ur the 1 that asked abt writing her speech for her. rnt u? or am i being a bird brain again?
2006-10-05 17:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just dance with guy freinds. If she really is that serious about her guy then she should not want to dance with guys that are not just her friends.
2006-10-05 17:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say to tell her that it is fine. without telling her this, eighth grade is way too young to actually think that you are going to marry that person. tell her to dance, and if her bf gets jealous, it's his problem not hers.
2006-10-05 17:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by silverladyfoxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well tell her it is ok,if she dances with other boys,but as long as her relationship with the other boy is serious,she shouldn`t break his heart by going further than dancing...
2006-10-05 17:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by donatella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋