is it really true that guys will make fun of a chick if they like her? (aka dumb blonde jokes,etc nothing actually mean or hurtful)and if so, when the hell do you grow out of it?
2006-10-05 10:10:47 · 28 answers · asked by Blonde ambition 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys grow out of it when they're around 14 . ..
2006-10-05 10:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible. I think it really depends on the guy you're talking about, some might do that while others won't. Remember, you women prefer puns and other word play jokes, while men prefer jokes that make fun of people. So long as it's in fun I suggest you just laugh along with it.
2006-10-05 17:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT all guys are like that i have 6 brothers and none of them ever made fun of a girl they have liked maybe played around with her, joking play hitting but everyone is different, maybe it makes some guys feel better more secure about them selves because they know there is a chance that you mighy not like them so they make up jokes to make themselves feel better incase of rejection, or maybe they are just really goofy guys and eventually they will grow out of it...
2006-10-05 17:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, that is one of the ways guys are comfortable giving attention and affection, without losing their macho stature in front of the guys. it also helps keep a distance, so that if the girl doeesn't feel the same way, he doesn't get as hurt or let down.
growing out if, it depends on when the guy matures. for some, maybe never.
it can also be a self esteem issue for the guy, so don't discount that.
2006-10-05 17:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rich C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it also depends on a persons age and how good they react to the opposite sex... I mean yeah it is common for a person to tease and taunt the opposite sex due to the common misconception that it is the only way to gain ones attention... so although not the best method in gaining someones attention it is more commonly used to gain the attraction of the opposite sex...
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2006-10-05 17:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are never satisfied...if you're serious and considerate, they say your'e dull. If you tell them critical or crude jokes, they call you rude.
It's about getting attention. As long as women respond, the guy will keep doing it. If you want him to stop; stop laughing.
2006-10-05 17:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Steve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if you love somebody, you don't make fun of him or her. You build respect, then you build more. At least thats what good people try for. If thats happening then you are both good people, otherwise nope , sorry. Try again maybe sometime with somebody else. Good Luck.
2006-10-05 17:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes unfortunately we do tend to make fun when we are interested, guess its our way of flirting.
You must realise we never grow out of it sorry :)
2006-10-05 17:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he probably likes you.Guys are weird. They actually think that this is attractive or cute I guess. Hun, I'm sorry to tell you, but I don't think it is something they grow out of!
2006-10-05 17:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not meant to be hurtful, just teasing,, and yes some guys do this,, if i like agirl i do,, but not to the extent of hurting the girl teasing is a form of flirting i was recently told
2006-10-05 17:14:49 · answer #11 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋