How do I get into swinging?
2006-10-05 10:04:53 · 22 answers · asked by Russell B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you in a couple? Contact me at ella87110@yahoo.com. My hubby and I are swingers.
2006-10-05 10:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on who you are. Are you a single male? Or are you a couple? It is very easy for couples to get into swinging, but more difficult for single males. There are many, many single males that try to get into the Lifestyle, usually because they think they can get lots of easy no-strings attache sex, swingers are all a bunch of horny have sex with anyone anywhere type people, and all they have to do is place an ad on a swingers site and wait for the offers to roll in.
They are sadly mistaken.
For most swingers, swining is something they do when they aren't paying attention to real life. It is their fantasy life. Then single guys come in and think what they see on the Internet and in porn is what swingers parties are, or swingers are like. Not the case.
Because of this many single guys are lechorous and for this reason have turned-off many couple from even responding to emails from them. This is also the reason most swingers clubs do not allow single men.
So if you are a single guy thinking this is an easy way to get laid... think again. You have a long road ahead of you. You'll have better luck going to clubs and meeting single women.
If you are a couple, then it will be much, much easier.
My advice, start by reading the information located on The Swingers Board. The FAQ has lots of good info about what it is all about and how to get involved. From there, place an ad on a swingers site, fill out your profile completely, make sure you post some decent pics (not pictures of your dick, that turns couples off really quick) and just be sincere.
Good luck.
2006-10-07 03:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a single man, it is not as simple as it appears.
The best way to get into the lifestyle is to be a part of the swinging community.
One of the best ways to do this it to participate in discussion forums - but the key concept is that you cannot participate by answering every post by saying you are available to receive oral satisfaction. :)
You have to bring value to the discussion, and participate as a member of the community - be yourself, be honest, and contribute to the community.
If you behave yourself, and become a member of the community, you will begin to get inquiries, and eventually invitations.
Two I recommend are:
http://www.theswingersforum.com
http://www.swingersboard.com
You should also join some sites, there are several that we belong to including:
http://www.swinglesonline.com - FREE
http://www.swappernet.com/default.asp?ref=5956 - FREE TRIAL
http://www.swinglifestyle.com/?signup=northindycpl - FREE WITH LIMITED ACCESS
http://www.sexyads.net?rs=4017&bn=71 - FREE TRIAL
Again, don't jump in and start offering your services to everyone on the site. Make sure you complete your profile honestly and as completely as possible.
Spend some time on the site understanding the culture of that site - each has it's own feel, and some are more welcoming to single males than others.
Visit some clubs in your area - there is a really good list of swingers clubs available at http://www.theswingersource.com
Make sure you reach out to the club owners or managers prior to going, some clubs do not allow single males, some allow them only on specific nights.
Go over the rules of the club carefully, and make sure you understand the etiquette of swinging (again, the discussion forums will help you there).
When you attend a club or party, do not over drink!
This site - http://www.swinglesonline.com actually specializes in helping couples who swing connect with singles in the lifestyle - and it's free, so you may want to look carefully at it.
Good luck to you!
2006-10-09 11:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by northindycpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of swing club all over the USA . and you do not need to be in a relationship to join.. Good luck
type in swinging clubs in your local google
2006-10-05 17:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go tot he local park. Sit on a swing and push back with your legs then lift them off the ground. Once you got some motion lean back when going back and kick forward when going forward and before you know it you will be swinging away merrily
2006-10-05 17:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Andy C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit on a swing and get some one to push you
2006-10-05 17:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-05 17:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the park sit on the swing and wave your legs about
2006-10-05 17:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
do a search online for swinging sites and sign up
2006-10-05 17:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by hockey_starr_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the play park, the swings are usually near the slide and roundabout.
2006-10-05 17:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are several different sites online that are really pretty decent. Swinglifestyle.com is a nice one, and it's free, or paid. Also, being a single male can be tough. One comment on here was if you had a g/f that was bi, or straight. Always helps, or you can meet one on a site.
Best of luck!
2006-10-05 17:12:58 · answer #11 · answered by champion193cx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋