I like this one guy but is it really worth changing my looks for him? I'm sick of spending an hour choosing what to wear every single day.
2006-10-05 09:57:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should like you for who you are and what you look like. Be yourself.
2006-10-05 09:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you don;t think it is worth it then don't. In the past I have changed myself only to be disappointed when things did not turn out the way that I wanted them to.
I say be true to yourself and if that means changing do it but if you think the cost is too great forget about it
2006-10-05 17:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change your look for a guy, do it if you feel that it will make you happy. If you like the way you look than leave it, no guy is worth changeing who you really are. If you he cant see that your beautiful the way you are than leave it. But if you feel like you need a boast of esteem for yourself to make you feel better about you than do it. But dont do it for a guy, do it for yourself.
2006-10-05 17:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy really likes you, he wouldn't care what you wear. Most guys are real pervs and want girls to show more skin.(But you dont need clothes that show alot of skin if you feel uncomfortable) I would probably go to aeropostale or abercrombie or hot topic if you decide to go shopping one day. Or for the heck of it, change your hairstyle instead if u want and see if he notices it.
2006-10-05 17:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you get serious with him, he's going to see the real you eventually. I'm not saying don't dress nicely for special events like dinner in a fancy restaurant, but you don't need to spend THAT much time on it.
2006-10-05 17:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up girl, if you need to change yourself for him it isn't really you is it? Dump him and get someone who appreciates you for yourself. Think of all the time you will save and be able to spend with your new man.
2006-10-05 17:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes switching things up is good because it shows that you are interesting and don't do the same thing all the time. Now, don't get me wrong, I don't think you NEED to change for the guy, he should like you how you are. However, sometimes you have to spice things up to get noticed; its fine as long as no one gets hurt.
2006-10-05 17:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares that much about what you wear, then no. It isn't worth it. You should want to look nice and if you don't want to then you shouldn't have to. There is more to you than what you wear and he should be able to notice that!
2006-10-05 16:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly NOT!! If he does not like you for what you are (inside and out) then he's not worth it. This guy probably isnt that great if he looks at how someone looks instead of who they are! Dont sacrifice your indivuduality for a guy.
2006-10-05 17:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to change your look for you then go for it, do what makes you happy. DO NOT!! change yourself for a guy because he won't know the real you.
2006-10-05 17:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy truly likes you it wont matter what you look like. You should not change for anyone just be yourself and if he doesn't like you back he doesn't deserve to be in your presence.
2006-10-05 17:00:47 · answer #11 · answered by texaschick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋