k, so theres this guy on my bus and i like him and i wanna get to know him more, but i dunno how!!! the bus is the only time i the day tht i see him and hes always talkin 2 some1 else!!! i think tht i might have a chance w/ this guy!!! Also i come off as the shy prude kinda person, but i am ANYTHING but PRUDE!!!! i may be shy @ times though, and this guy is really random, so pleeeez hellp me!!!besides, i gotta make my ex jealous, cause hes goin out w/ a chick 2 years older than him!!!
2006-10-05 09:51:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this about the guy, or making your boyfriend jealous. If its about getting the guy, then come and ask me. If its about getting your boyfriend jealous, I personally don't want to talk to you. Playing with a guys emotions is terrible. It'll get you into LOADS of trouble. Anyways, if its for getting the guy, I guess just sit next to him and talk. If you sit next to him, he'll have to talk to you! Strike up a conversation. Also, you'll never know what a guy thinks until you get to know him!
And they say women are confusing!!
2006-10-05 09:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
through time, that's been suggested that adult males should be those to ask a lady out - it develop into once that it develop into unseemly for a comfortable female to ask a guy out. even with the indisputable fact that, that is the twenty first century and issues replace. I imagine some females are shy to ask a boy out because the ladies might want to correctly be petrified of rejection.
2016-12-04 07:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bad idea to go after a guy just to make another one jealous....you'll be the one that loses in the end. go after this guy if you REALLY like him or else it could turn out he's a total jerk.
if you're shy ,TRY and make an effort to talk to him. don't come off as too strong but, say you get on the bus and he's sitting in an area by himself. i wouldn't suggest sitting in the seat with him but at least close enough where you could turn around and talk to him. maybe talk about school and go from there.
this will give you a chance to get to kno wwhat you're getting into. and then after awhile (as in a couple days/weeks) if you still like him, ask him out if he hasn't asked you by then. trust me, your instincts will tell you if he likes you or not.
2006-10-05 10:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by thebodyelectric! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just say hi like you would to any freind. then kinda ask him a question or too like whats his favorite band or have you ever seen (movie).... and the confersation will go on from there.
and whats the worst that can hapen? he'll say no? and when you get older, you'll laugh about what happend. who knows it might turn out for the best. life is about taking risks and if you never take risks, you'll never how it might of happend if you did...
so just go for it!
2006-10-05 10:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a note saying whateva you wanna say then if he get on the bus after you give him the note while sitting down if he passes by your seat ..if not try to catch him at a really good time and hand him tha note good luck
2006-10-05 10:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Brittnee R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!!you soooo tokk my name>>>Lizzie<<< damn...gagga...
anyways, i say that you should start from asking him to go to the movies next friday!!!i mean the ring2 is comings out that FRIDAY!!!so i say you ask him if he has any plans for next friday and believe me im shy too but hey, starting that way evryting will turn out smooth!!!=)
as for me is the other way around becuz this guy has a g/f and im just waiting for this chick to leave out of state cuz she's supposebly moving so idk...hahaha...hopesfully i get him!!=)
2006-10-05 09:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straightforward. Have some courage.
2006-10-05 09:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by The Aabenator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋