Like a girl at the office?

Question

what do you do if you like a girl at your ofice what you work with every day

Answer 1

These workplace romances never work out. When over, you are uncomfortable about seeing the person every day unless you want to go through the stress of changing jobs.

Keep it friendly, nothing more. Unless one of you decides to work elsewhere...

Answer 2

As some US presidents would agree, it may be relatively easy to get in, but can get tricky to get out.

I agree with previous answers in that you may be forced to sacrifice your job. In some jobs it is even prohibited to have a relationship within the department, to maintain fair play.

We men can be s.o.a.b. , but nothing compares with a woman bearing a grudge. At least with men you could go to a duel (poker, footie, squash, pro evo soccer, or good ol' fists).

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Answer 3

Say hi, everytime you walk by and then develop it in to how you are doing, and then eventually take in interest in her work and ask about her days and what she thinks of her role, eventually after building substantial rapport you could ask her out for a drink or a get together and if you want get ask her to invite some friends and vice versa, and once you and she are comfortable with each other you could and will be in a positon to share your feelings. Then its all yours.
Good Luck.

Answer 4

first of all you need to ask yourself: "do I like my job?"

If you don't like your job and don't mind losing it and possibly having problems getting any other job then go ahead make your move and date her!!!

If on the other hand you like your job, want to move up in it and make something of your life then you will not even approach her for coffee!!

why?

because once you go out with a woman who works at the same place you do, you open yourself up to sexual harassment. think of it this way.. what will happen once you two break up - and come on.. it WILLL happen. what if you REALLY piss her off? all she has to do is pick up the phone and call HR and say that you have made some unwanted advnaces towards her and then you are fired, in a law suite, and guilty in the eyes of just about everyone - even after you are found not guilty!!!

and yeah.. you may say "she's not like that"... and she may NOT be.. but.. are you willing to take that chance?

Not to mention that a lot of work places have rules about people dating to cut down on this type of thing so you may be breaking a company rule!!!

take it from someone who has seen several of her former "friends" play this card when they have broken up with someone at work and couldn't stand seeing them anymore - it happens more than you think.

Answer 5

Don't EVER date co-workers! Unless you don't give a rats @ss about your job, stay away from people you work with! It's always asking for trouble. Don't speak to women you work with unless it's related directly to work. Don't tell them they look nice. Don't comment on anything except whatever work needs you have, because you're a walking lawsuit waiting to happen.

Answer 6

watch how she looks at other men , if she doesn't have interest in any of them then order some flowers and leave it on her desk.
watch her reaction as she would look around the office and wonder who sent them , then catch her eye and shy away indicating to her that you sent them. a word of warning i did this and got a beating from her husband who was my boss,but it was worth it as come xmas due i shagged her in the bathroom.....
good luck my friend and all the best.....

Answer 7

ask her out for a few drinks get a few of u to go suss her out see wats she like outside the office she may not be all she is cracked up to be

Answer 8

find another office to work in

Answer 9

Bend her over the copier at lunch time.

Answer 10

ask her if she want a bettle, a snake, or a worm