I am 32 years old and there is a girl at work that is 19, hot, and wants to go out with me. Would it be wrong if i did it? I mean i am not gonna try to bang her or anything, but would it be ok if i went out with a girl so much younger than me?
2006-10-05 09:47:28 · 32 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age is meaningless when it comes to relationships once you are an adult. If you meet enough people, you will meet fifty year old children and 18 year old grand masters.
People who are the same age have problems specific to same age relationships, people who are much different ages have problems specific to that type of relationship.
Is she an adult, or is she a child? Are you dating or really looking for a long relationship? Do you thirst for power over your lovers or are you happy go lucky? Would you be embarraassed if she went with you to a social event or are you ready to make a statement to all the bores who are demand age equality?
Could you stand it if she banged you once and then stopped returning your calls?
Male conventional wisdom is pretty much on the side that you should go for it, and most of those people against it are against premarital sex anyway for religious reasons.
And really, are the unmarried 32 year old women going to say they don't understand why a guy wouldn't be totally fixated on getting one of them? As in, who wants to get with the sex in the city women after they have been passed around a thousand times, as they talk about every penis they have ever seen over lunch?
Go for it. 'not going to try to bang her', right, uh huh. Go for it.
2006-10-05 10:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. She's of legal age to decide for herself. But do not contribute to any underage drinking...that could get you in trouble. Another thing you may want to think about is if things just don't go well, do you really think you'll like going to work and seeing her all the time, or having her nag you for another date? 19 year old females are a bit immature and clingy, so try to keep it on the down-low, and learn a bit about her in a more casual setting first. She might be too immature, although younger women do tend to respect older men and you can finally dominate the situation with your superior maturity.
2006-10-05 09:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 37 and I am telling you now that I would bang the hell out of a 19 year old BUT I would not date a 19 year old. There is no chance that me and a 19 year old would have ANY thing in common worthy enought to establish a relationship NOT to mention I have an 18 year old. Bang! Bang! Bang!....Hell no to dating.
2006-10-05 09:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-08-29 07:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by liebermann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for f*ck's sake. You know how old she is, she knows how old you are, what's the problem? I always dated (and slept with) men vastly older than me. I chose to do this because generally out of the men that I met, it was the older men I found most interesting and attractive. I didn't need a father figure or anything like that. They were just better somehow (probably because they were more confident and sure of themselves). If you like the girl and the girl likes you, you would be STUPID to not go out with her simply because of an age difference. You are unfairly judging her based on her age. She could be very mature.
2006-10-05 09:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with a 32 year old, single guy going out with a 19 year old single girl.
Mind you.. you can't take her to a bar and you can't give her alcohol of any type.
Keep this in mind though.. you really ARE wanting to bang her. That is really the only reason you want to go out with her. chances are she is aware of that too and in fact it may be the ONLY reason why she wants to go out with YOU!!! older guys know how to take their time and they (should) know alot about sex.. more than guys her age would. So.. keep that option open, be proud and take that little tart out and show her the night of her life!! (giggle, giggle)
2006-10-05 09:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think going out with her is a great idea.
Then you can see if there is anything about her besides the 'hot' aspect that would keep you interested.
If you are only going out with her because she is hot and not because you like something else about her personality then why not just tell her you are only into casual sex with her and see how that goes!
Who is to say that you are not soul mates?
Not anyone on here as we do not know either of you!
Have a great date!
2006-10-05 09:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, I'm 30 and I went out with a 22 year old I had a great time with him for the time being. It didn't last becasue the adult conversation that you desire at time was completely not there.
If you want to have fun for a little while, make sure you tell her it's just for kicks, cause she could fall in love, young girls tend to do that.
2006-10-05 09:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy PuertoRican Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you interested in a teenager? That's a vast difference of maturity. What's the point of going out with her if you don't plan to one day get a bit more serious?
2006-10-05 09:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Funchy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah since she willing always try sumthin new see how it works out she may be younger than u but she is legal and she wants u if u like her and she likes u go for it cuz age aint nuthin but a number
2006-10-05 09:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by confused89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋