there is this girl at school who no one talks to (because she dresses likes a goth and says weird stuff like she believes in aliens,she can see auras,she is a vampire and lots of other stuff.recently (before i knew all this) i started talking to her because i felt bad for her,but recently she told me she was gay and she keeps following me around and asking me weird stuff like :would you pose for playboy?she keeps flirting with me, its freaking me out and i don't know what to do?
2006-10-05 09:41:29 · 32 answers · asked by metal up your ass 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not gay
2006-10-05 09:49:05 · update #1
Tell her how you feel. My guess, she already knows you aren't gay and is just so happy to have a friend that she's asking all sorts of questions.
You're a great kid for wanting to make her feel less awkward about not having any friends.
When you tell her that you're not gay, my guess is that you'll at least be friends.
2006-10-05 09:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is obviously different and is clinging to you because you've shown her some form of attention. which is pretty weird for you i imagine. but why do you only want to stop talking to her now that you know that she said all this stuff (about the aliens, auras etc)? surely if you felt sorry for her before, you must still feel a bit sorry for her now for the same reason...coz she's lonely. so don't push her away, help her. make it clear that you aren't interested in being more than a friend and when she says something your not comfortable with let her know it. maybe if you can be a friend to her and encourage her not say things which other people dont feel comfortable with then other people will talk to her too, and then you wont be the only one so she wont just cling to you.
2006-10-05 09:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by sky_blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? She may be weird but even so she still needs friends. If she is freaking you out then tell her so. Be honest. She will respect you. Maybe in the future the both of you can joke around about the stuff she believes in. Don't be so anal about her being gay either. Tell her you can help her find a gf or 2.
2006-10-05 09:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by steve s 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have opened Pandora's box. Just kidding. She probably doesn't have any friends and you are her only one. Put yourself in her shoes. Ask her weird questions back. See how she responds. This is a chance to learn how strange people see things. Be her friend. Question her beliefs in the vampire culture and how the aliens came knocking on your door one night asking for her. Have fun with it, man. I wish I knew a freak show like her. It would make for some good *** stories. Good luck.
2006-10-05 09:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by deguia215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can only base the friendship on "Feeling Sorry for her" then you can't be a true friend.
She's obviously soul searching, trying to find her true self - why don't you be a decent friend and try and help her out.
Look on the net for forums or community groups, try and get her to interact with other girls in your area with different interest.
Most of all be nice as I'm pretty certain she'll feel hurt and humiliated if she's said all this too you and you decide she isn't worth knowing.
2006-10-05 09:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by clurburuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just so thrilled that you were friendly to her, girls can be so bitchy....keep cool, tell her you are not gay but like her 'as a friend' (what a cliche! ) But go for it, she is maybe trying out her flirting on you, sounds pretty mixed up anyway, trying to make herself different yet falling into the classic trap of being so boringly the same as most others....if its too hard to stay pals, make an excuse (too much study?) and keep your distance for a bit but make a date to meet for a 'coffee' some time in the near future.......good luck!
2006-10-05 09:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Susie Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her straight on, and tell her, sorry if you gave her the wrong impression, but you are definitely not gay, so she is wasting her time, and causing you embarrasement. About posing for playboy, well you will make that decision when you have finished school.
2006-10-05 09:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh
that is freaky as!
i have the same problem but te girl aint a lesbo and she doesnt say weird stuff she's just annoying
right what you have to do is never say hi, or start conversation with her. then ur 'friendship' will die away hopefully
you just can't upset her though
try and runaway from her. if u see her somewhere go the opposite direction. if she starts talking to u then say sorry can me and 'say one of ur friends's names who is standing by you'
talk for 2 minutes. and then she probs would go offf somewhere else.
how old is this freaky stalker?
2006-10-05 09:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by Button.Monster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUNN!!! she's gonna keep stocking you. and first she says she's gay, and then she starts flirting with u and saying weird stuff to you? i would be afraid. one day, she's probably gonna push u in a corner and beat u up, or even worse, she's gonna suck all of your blood out! lol.
At my school, I'm the most popular girl there, so I'm not a lonely person that no one talks to because I'm the blonde-haired cheerleader and every boys wishes that they were with me!
2006-10-05 09:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by cece#2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok be afraid, goths are weird people, stay away from her at all costs if you think shes interested in you, shes potentially dangerous, always have somebody else with you when your around her or your done for.
2006-10-05 09:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by J B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋