im dating a guy who is a co-worker that is sooo adored by my other co-workers... since day one, they never like us together... i mean they like him, and they like me, but they just dont want us together, get it? so eventually he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yes... but things were getting on the way so i broke up with him... i know it was bad but i eventually realized i love him and want him back. so the other co-workers were happy that he's not with me anymore and they're trying to get him to stop seeing me, but me and that guy are back on the dating process and he tells me that he still likes me... how can i get my other co-worker to stop messing up with me and the guy that im dating?
2006-10-05 09:31:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you stop letting other dictate who you date, then you will be mature enough to handle a relationship.
2006-10-05 09:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you want to control peoples opinions. You want to change them!
SO how do you change the opinions of people you like, and who you say like you....that is the question.
I think that the 'guy' needs to initiate any change that is going to happen. Have you talked to him about this?
Is the perception you have of the way they feel about your dating him have concrete evidence or is it merely what you think?
I would talk to him, tell him your concerns and see what (as a team) you can do to change the perceptions of these people so that they see how wonderful you are for him!
2006-10-05 09:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN'T PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY WANT AND WOMEN ARE A TRIP AND ALWAYS WILL BE. WE ALWAYS WANT WHAT WE CANT' HAVE. FOCUS ON KEEPING YOUR DUDE HAPPY IF YOU START PUTTING ALL THIS ENERGY INTO WONDERING WHAT THERE THINKING AND WHY WHO SAID WHAT YOUR GONNA LOOK UP AND ONE OF THEM WILL HAVE STOLE HIM RIGHT FROM UNDER YOU BECAUSE YOU WHERE TO FOCUSED ON SOME CATTY COCK BLOCKING WHORES TO SEE THAT THERE WAS TROUBLE IN PARADISE. DON'T WORRY ABOUT NOBODY BUT YOUR NEW MAN. SCREW THEM
2006-10-05 09:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them, talk to the dude and make sure your both clear on the situation and what you both want, and go for it. simple as that.
2006-10-05 09:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by wishing_i_could_sing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beak up with him i know who he is hes cheating on u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-05 09:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy664 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋