I was talking with this guy and he was very nice perfect relationship and after few wks I was in total control asking him to change and suggesting every third day that we should break up, at the same time saying wonderful things about him and our relationship. Yesterday he told me that he don’t like this attitude and we should stop. I am wondering is he going to call me ????
2006-10-05 09:29:18 · 16 answers · asked by stock2004dc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is history my dear...
2006-10-05 10:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nut!
First of all you should be very honest with yourself and come to the realization that you don't want to be in a relationship. Not a healthy one anyway.
The first mistake is trying to be in control of another adults emotions when you don't even have control of your own. If you were a smart person, you would have just accepted that he was nice and left it at that, and tried to build a healthy relationship from that point but no, you had to try to change ever thing about him without any self examination, when it is obvious you have issues that need to be resolved with in yourself. And until you examine yourself thoroughly... you will always have this issue not matter whom you are with. If he's sensible man he's not going to call you back!
2006-10-05 16:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you being sarcastic when you said that you should break up every third day? You could be sending him mixed messages and totally confusing him. I could give you more information but I don't have the details of the relationship. You didn't give me much to work with. Give me more details and I will be more than happy to help you out.
2006-10-05 16:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by deguia215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Don't look for a call sorry to say but men don't want to be changed. and it sounds like the past relationship was full of drama and drama is never a good thing.
2006-10-05 16:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Larry A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you started trying to change things about him, it drove him away. You'll prolly hear from him, but it won't be what you are hoping for. Maybe next time find someone you are happy with or accept that you are not going to change someone else.
2006-10-05 16:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by arcadia_1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there's someone that needs to change, its you lady... never dare a break up! then regret... thats all i can say... and if you still want to talk to him, dont wait for his call, do the first move, call him instead! forget about your ego and cut the pride off... say sorry if you have to... but good luck to you! :)
2006-10-05 16:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you want to brake up, it's eazy. here is the deal
1) stop talking, emailing, him
2) stop calling him, seeing him,
3) start dating other people
hard uh?
2006-10-05 16:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well call him and see whats going on dont get a attitude when your on tha phone with him try best to keep calm and talk to him
2006-10-05 16:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Brittnee R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were suggesting you should break up? Why? No I don't think he'll be calling you.
2006-10-05 16:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by Toni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've written no he wont call you. Whats with you doing that anyway ?
2006-10-05 16:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PROBABLY NOT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR A CONTROL FREAK AND A BIT*H HE GREW SOME BALLS AND DECIDED YOU WEREN'T WORTH THE TROUBLE
2006-10-05 16:32:52 · answer #11 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋