okay so theres this guy that im totally in love with. we always flirt and i seriouslyl thought he liked me. he then told me that he likes my x-best friend. i need to know what i can do to make him like me. and should i tell him i have feelings for him, even if i know he likes someone else? please im desperate for suggestions. thanks
2006-10-05 09:25:02 · 20 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he likes someone else just let it go.. you can't make someone like you.
2006-10-05 09:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is a reality check, he will like anyone he wants to like. But you need to do what is right by your feelings. What I mean is you need to tell him how you feel. That's the only why he may even consider to go out with you or be a boyfriend. He may just see you as a friend that has no interest in him or he just sees you only as a friend no matter what. But you need to try. The only thing to do is be brave and tell him you know that he likes this girl and that he wants to date(or whatever) but that you have real feelings for him, you may actually get lucky, but you won't know until you do something about it.
2006-10-05 09:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperate being the operative word here!
DON'T be desperate!
Think about this, he is a flirt (my assumption), if I am wrong then he was flirting with you to get to the other girl, also bad.
I am not saying he is a bad guy, but I think he knows what he wants and ummm sweetness it is not you.
I would TOTALLY play it cool. You never know where it might lead if you are his friend.
Is it life and death if you do not hook up with this guy today...NO and if you push it and it back fires you are no better off.
Good luck!
2006-10-05 09:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just leave it alone. I've seen many times before where females know that guys like someone other than them and they try to make them like them and the female just ends up getting hurt. Chances are if he tells your x-bestfriend that he likes her and she rejects him then he'll come running to you, but is that what you really want? He didn't like you in the first place so don't settle for second best. You are worth more than that. Find someone who shares mutual feelings with you.
2006-10-05 09:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by nh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE anyone feel about you the way you do about them. How can you say you're totally in love with him? You don't even KNOW him. You find him attractive maybe, maybe lust, maybe have a crush but you're not in love with HIM...maybe in love with the desire for him. He likes someone else so that pretty much says he's "Off the market"
2006-10-05 09:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to go through all the drama? Just tell him you like him, say you don't want to hear about him liking your friend or whatever, and see what happens.
Move on if it doesn't work. Nothing is worth delaying you life.
2006-10-05 09:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by wishing_i_could_sing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never make someone like you
unless you lie but then it is still not you he likes, right!!!! you should tell him how you feel right to his face if he shuts you down move on the are plenty of guys out there. oh if you 2 always flirt but he likes your ex friend what does that tell you??
2006-10-05 09:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Candace H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there's nothing wrong with telling him you like him, regardless of his situation--but don't be surprised if he doesn't return the feelings.
My suggestion is to forget him and go find someone who loves you for the beautiful person you are. Good luck!
2006-10-05 09:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by pisceanwillow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line be yourself and enjoy your life. Stay his friend but move on, let him see you out dating and enjoying your life. If there was any chance at all this should get him thinking and make him come around.
2006-10-05 09:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested in you.
Anything you do to "make" him like you will be superficial, and manipulative.
Do whatever you would normally do, and maybe he will become attracted to you on his own, but don't force it. It won't end up being what either of you wants.
2006-10-05 09:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit cockblocking.
If he says he likes your friend, then see if you can make that happen. Ever heard the old saying "if you love something, let it go. if it's yours it'll come back to you and if it doesn't it never was".
Let him try and go learn "You make me wanna" by Usher.
2006-10-05 09:34:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋