me and the girlfriend been together or over a year, and i moved away to finish school, and i fould out that this model on myspace, emailed her and she said she thought it was me, so she put her # on there and he texed and called her and now they talk and she has keeping it from me and i and i just recently found out, the guy is a model and is just her type, she said there is no harm in having guy friends and she doesnt like it when i bring it up and if i ask her a question, she is silent for about 5 seconds, then answers, or she kind of changes the subject, what should i do about her, should i let it go and let her be friends or just get rid of her, she says there is nothing i should worry about, she says she will never cheat on me, what should i do?
2006-10-05 09:20:57 · 12 answers · asked by nirad80 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... thinking it was you and finding out it was not... I would wonder why she put her # on there.... I would bet you knew the # already... Then if she is so sketchy about telling you about him I would be concerned... Be cautious.
2006-10-05 09:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if he is a model, then he is not serious with your girlfriend. Meaning... eventually she will be hurt by him and she will come back to you, now the question is. Will you want her back after all of the drama ends? She has already lied, since when after a year would you not have her number already? So she knew it was not you who had emailed her. Then, by the time she has to think of lies to come up with as to why she should have males friend that you don't know mind you, it at that point has already become an inappropriate relationship. So if I were you, I would get my studying done graduate from school try to make a hell of allot of money, and marry somebody that likes you better than you like them.
2006-10-05 09:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is making up excuses... first of all if you where together for over a year... YOU ALREADY HAVE HER PHONE NUMBER...and if there was nothing to it but a friendship she would not be hiding it from you....and when you do bring it up she does not want to talk about it cause she is afraid something will slip.... all in all she has not been honest upfront.... get rid of her... you deserve someone to treat you as you deserve... not as a safety net is this does not work out with her model
2006-10-05 09:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. There's nothing wrong with either gender having friends of the opposite sex........but when she hesitates or attempts to hide it from the start..........she may have more than just a "simple friend" kind of interest. So to save you both the trouble, you should just cut off the ties now and let her go before it spirals into something worse.
2006-10-05 09:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's that important to her to talk to him and you think she is lying about what she tells you; then yes I would let her go. There is no need of you trying to keep up a long distance relationship with her when she is talking with someone else. I wouldn't even try; unless you have the patience. You may as well talk to others too.
2006-10-05 09:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should respect you enough to stop talking to the guy if she sees that it is making you uncomfortable. Ask her how she would feel if you started talking to a model like she's doing. Give her an ultimatum tell her it's you or him. If she still will not stop talking to the guy then give her the boot.
2006-10-05 09:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey if she is pausing for some sec she is thinking of something to say. So there's one answert he other She is isn't telling you what the talk about does she and if she blows up and ignores you then they are talking about something other than a friendship. Keep an I on her, watch her body language.
2006-10-05 09:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by geminigurl2404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would examine this situation real closely. Sounds like she is keeping something from you, and YES I think she is cheating.
2006-10-05 09:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by mharrop@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know for a fact that she's cheating on you but you should check it out because hesitating and getting defensive when you talk about it makes even me suspicious..
2006-10-05 09:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep an eye on her...if things get more suspicious...she just might be cheating.
2006-10-05 09:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋