ok ok ok... i am fating my boyfriend for about a year now, and my exboyfriend called me out of the blue. He tells me he misses me and that he would choose me over anyone. He is my first love, and the first person I had sex with, and I am wondering what to do. I love my boyfriend tooooo death, and really dont want to jepordize my relationship with my boyfriend for my ex. However, I can't stop thinking about what he said, and we did hang out and I can't stop thinking about it, what the heck should i do?
thanks...
2006-10-05 09:10:50 · 14 answers · asked by Lydia J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have a good thing with your current boyfriend, then stay with him, there's a reason your ex is your ex. The other way I see it is if you're ex misses you and wants you back, then TOO BAD!!! He had his chance the first time and messed it up!!!! You're with someone who apreciates you now. Plus, if he's understanding, tell your boyfriend that your ex has called you and you don't like that he did and you want your boyfriend to know from you than someone else so that he cans support you and stand by your side. By doing so, it will turn things around in your head and it will be easier to think about it like you didn't like it and don't want him calling you. I hope I could help. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-05 09:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend, stay away from your ex. Tell your ex that you are happy with a new man and if it happens that you are single again at some pont in the future you will call him. There are reasons he is an ex, think of those things when you think about him. It is easy to remember only the good, but if it was that good you would be with him right now wouldn't you? tell your current boyfriend about this and you can be sure he will give you the extra attention you crave and fufill your needs.
Be happy, leave your ex in the past.
2006-10-05 16:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, if you really want to be with your ex and he's all you think about then go for it, but why did it take him so long to call you and tell you how he feels, look at each relationship and if you have more good times with your current boyfriend than your ex really considerate it and understand that whatever decision you make you can't go back, If it didn't work the first time what makes you so sure it will work the second... good luck
2006-10-05 16:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U SHOULD GROW UP. women dont give men credit but fall 4 the same zhit everyday allday. he called because whoever he was fuking with wasnt nothing like u meaning nice and gullible. first loves dont mean zhit u were just careless n deciding on when 2 give up your virginity and not fully understanding the impact it would have on your short life. if u love your current bf 2 death then act like it cause talk is cheap.
2006-10-05 16:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an ex for a reason. Just remember that. Its not worth loosing the boyfriend you have now that you love.
I have been there before.
DO NOT ever go back..
2006-10-05 16:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by expensv_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ruin something that is good and he is an ex for a reason. Put the ex out of the picture.
2006-10-05 17:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Drojan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your current bf. Your ex is always gonna make you feel like that due to him being your first, but if it didnt work before it prolly wont now, you are young, live life.
2006-10-05 16:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by countrygirl66032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it occurred to you that you ex doesnt want you, but he doesnt want anyone else to have you too? I always advise my dtr to sit down and write out the pros and cons of dating each guy, that is usually enough to help her decide. My dtr was engaged for 1.5 yrs to a jackass that was verbally abusive to her...but "she loved him". I am glad to say, she has moved on and found a wonderful man who treats her so good and they just got engaged. So I advise you to "slam" that door on your ex and move on....ex's are ex's for a reason....maybe you should review your history with the ex?
2006-10-05 16:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about what made you split with him then think "what is my current b/f doing wrong" find out where the weight is at then go for that person. If you don't your going to sleep with your ex again.
2006-10-05 16:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by 504Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your current bf that you want to see your ex and him too. If you don't try your going to fantasize for ever.
2006-10-05 16:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋