everything was great just one day out of nowhere she broke up with me and I miss her so much, we loved eachother so much and talked about our future together a lot. Even told other people. I dont really know how she can just end it like that. I miss her and love her more then anything, and I dont want to be with any other girl. She said its ok we can still be close friends but I want my baby back and its really hard. What do i do.
2006-10-05 09:10:01 · 8 answers · asked by 97254698 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shes really sweet and innocent and weve both had past relationships with other people where weve been treated badly. But she says shes never been like this about anyone, and we did everything together. At one point i had to wait one month for her as she was on vacation and when she came back things were rough for a couple days but then they went greater then ever before. If i could I would marry her right now, were both 18 but we talked about how we had to finish school first. I really love this girl more then anything in the world and Ill do anything to get her back. I tried not talking to her but I cant go a day without her its really really hard. Should I just not talk to her for a week and see if she comes back or stay close and hang out with her?
2006-10-05 09:44:16 · update #1
arcadia_1... its hard to leave her alone when i cant stop thinking about her i really really loved her more then anything we got eachother through everything and I just cant believe she just ended it. Ladies, do you think not talking to her for a while would get her back because i want to marry this girl and I dont wanna loser her becaue I think shes the one.
2006-10-05 09:55:56 · update #2
i am very sorry. i know it hurts. but you can not force love. you may have enough love for both of you but that kind of relationship never lasts long. it took me a really long while to get over my first love. i loved him so much.but....... i am now happily married to a really wonderful husband with 3 children. do you believe in fate? and destiny? among many chinese..there is a saying IT WAS NOT MEANT TO BE. time do really heal all wounds.
2006-10-05 09:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sux im sorry :( ... unfortunatly we say its not u its me because we dont want to hurt ur feelings she sadly probably found someone else and there is nothing u can do to make the pain go away u just have to sit it out. keep urself occupied with friends, you will eventually find another girl you do want to be with but untill then your going to be misserable. and when she sais she still wants to be close friends it meens she doesnt want you to find someone else and replace her so she is trying to keep u attached to her (been there) but the longer u stay close friends with her the longer it is going to take to heal. It sounds like u really care for her and she will be the one missing out in the long run...... good luck
2006-10-05 16:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Emily May 11/10/08 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was ever any love there at all, then you need to leave her alone. If you can do that, you will accomplish two things, she may decide she misses you and if she doesn't you are already that much closer to being over it.
2006-10-05 16:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by arcadia_1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell what you just said you dont wanna be with any other girl .... if that doest work be friends and see how good it gets from there b/c theres gonna be a time shes gonna be hurt from her next bf and she gonna need a friend so just b friends and c how far it goes **dont rush your friendship take time and give her space** now if you spend less time with her shes gonna wanna spend more time with you [just saying] might happen ok.....good luck
2006-10-05 16:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Brittnee R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet you will get this a million times but the only way to find out why she broke up with her or if you can get her back is to ask her
but if she doesn't want you back then you have to deal with the fact that she doesn't want you and you need to start lookin for other girls
2006-10-05 16:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see. Or tell her how you feel because it seems that the two of you can't be just friends.
2006-10-05 16:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by karren b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then just find someone else and dont look back.
she's doing that, right?
2006-10-05 16:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE
OK BOBELINA, THAT'S JUST WAY TO MUCH
2006-10-05 16:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋