why is love...?

Question

why every time I tell a girl that I love her she resents me?
should a be a swine and piss her off? should I never call her again? should I never send her SMS? should I play it cool? i can never play it cool when i'm in love... tell me please i desperate

Answer 1

She probably just didnt know how to take it. Just try to stick it out for awhile and see how she acts.

Answer 2

Oh boy. You, sir, are what I like to call a clinger. You are way too desperate and needy. It's time to make a change.

Don't be the nice guy. If a girl gives you her number, don't call for a couple of days. Or if she sends you a text, don't reply right away. Make her try hard to get you. Do the role reversal and cause her to be the desperate one. My theory is that you are mistaking infatuation for love and that can be a fatal mistake. You go for the basket from half court when you should just wait and get closer to grab the lay up. Ya dig?
Hope this helps and best of luck to ya!
~D.

ps- play it cool until she lets you know. Trust me, when she's ready for that, you'll know.

Answer 3

Sweetie heart play it cool, you can't keep allowing yourself to fall in love so fast, you have been hurt before and that's the reason why. You play it cool and when the lady is ready she'll let you no. It will help prevent you from not getting hurt.

Answer 4

well...are you talking about a current relationship or an old one?? if it is now then ask her if she feels the same way that you do. if she don't then find someone who does!

Answer 5

just be your self and comfront her about it, thalk to her of course, and just mention it, it is not gonna kill u

Answer 6

she is just shocked.......it'll pass and when she is over that she will come to you so just wait and see good luck