This guy and me dated for about 3 weeks and then we had an incident and he stopped talking to me. Today, he finally talked to me and when i asked him if we could go out, he said we'll see. I could tell just by how he was looking at me that he was interested.
2006-10-05 08:37:55 · 36 answers · asked by mamiprincessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is either not interested or he likes to play hard to get or he could have someone else he is seeing at the time and hes thinking of a way to see both of you. I would find someone new. If he was really interested he would not have to think about it. He would have set the date up. Move on there is someone out there for everyone. Why play games.. No one needs that...
2006-10-05 08:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by hotmamma6988@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase we'll see can have many different meanings from a guy point of view. The most obvious answers would be:
1. I'm not ready for this just yet but i still want you
2. This is a total surprise
3. Take our relationship slowly as i don't want the same incident to happen.
Guys are good with hiding there emotions so be alert as he can do something unexpected at any moment. But the signs are clear. He wants you.
2006-10-05 08:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Gold Wings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's not sure whether he wants to start seeing you again. He might think your pretty and have a good figure, etc but that doesn't necessarily make a guy want to date someone. Sounds to me like he means exactly what he said "we'll see". I wouldn't pressure this guy into going out - if he really likes you and wants to give it another try, he will. If you pressure him - you might scare him off and then you'll never have another date. Just be patient and see what happens.
2006-10-05 08:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by You'llneverguess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say quit chasing him (whether or not the incident was your fault). If he likes you he'll come around. If he doesn't- who cares, you will have already found someone else to chase and romance YOU. It's so much funner to play hard to get. Boys these days have no clue what it means to be a man.
2006-10-05 08:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cortney & Nathan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it....but he probably just didn't know what to say to you, and instead blew you off. He gave you a "safe" answer....one that doesn't make him look like a bad guy, and doesn't initally hurt your feelings. If he was really into you, he should have said so. Find yourself someone with some confidence and a backbone!
2006-10-05 08:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by ekielly07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, that doesnt sound good. Sounds like whatever the "incident" was is making him think twice about going back out with you.
2006-10-05 08:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is interested but make sure you don't push it. See what he says tomorrow. But dont ask him right away, he might find it creepy. Let him talk to you about it. If he doesn't then ask him again.
Good Luck
2006-10-05 08:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, we'll see in my vocabulary probably means no.
You know him pretty well I bet, and if the way he was looking at you hinted to him being interested, I would follow up with it.
2006-10-05 08:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are asking the wrong guy out. Ditch the dude
2006-10-05 08:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means he's not sure - like he has some other options. I suggest you leave him alone cuz if he wanted to go he would have said yes!
2006-10-05 08:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋