We've been out a few times. I got a kiss from her on the first date which was last Friday, and then on Tuesday I kissed her in my car, in front of her house before she got out. One would think that this girl is interested in me if she's allowing me to get that close to her, but I'm finding it hard to really gauge how interested she is in me. She knew I was working today and she came in to pick up her check with one of her guy friends. I thought that if she knew I was there, that she might come and talk to me for a minute. Apparently I thought wrong. She walks right by my aisle, standing no more than 6 feet away, and doesn't say a ******* word. Now, it didn't bother me that she was with some other guy, or that maybe she just didn't see me. It bothers me that she didn't even think to come see me. Either I'm being too insecure or I'm not doing enough to hold her interest. What do you people think?
2006-10-05 08:35:50 · 15 answers · asked by feedazombie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I seriously doubt she wants my money. She insisted that I not pay for her lunch yesterday. I told her that it was no big deal and that I wasn't going to eat in front of her if she wasn't going to eat.
2006-10-05 08:51:29 · update #1
You waited too long to take charge.
Now you are in the friendzone.
Also, if she truly wanted you you would know it.
They make a reason to be around you when they want you , but like little children, they have short attention spans.
2006-10-05 08:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her. If she answers, just casually mention that you saw her in the store. You'll know by her response. Maybe she was on a schedule and did not have time to look for you or maybe the friend she was with was on a schedule. There could be a hundred different explanations.
Also, she probably would not let you kiss her if she were not at least a little interested. Barring that, the real test is how she responds to your kiss...
I hope it works out for you.
2006-10-05 08:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and she haven't made any comitments to each other, or talked about only dateing each other, then she has the right to be seeing other men, however, ignoring you does make it a different story.
Maybe the guy she was with, isn't secure in her dateing others.
Maybe she's useing you for a free good time out.
Confront her! Ask her what gives.
I have let men kiss me good night when I didn't find them interesting. That was bad on my part, but I do believe men would do the same thing.
2006-10-05 08:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully some women do kiss guys when they are not interested in them. Usually they do have some sort of attraction toward the guy unless they are on the drunk and tipsy side so she most likely had some feelings toward you but now either she no longer does or she doesn't know how to act around you since you guys have kissed. See what happens when you try and talk to her about it. It may give you a feeling to whether she does care or not.
2006-10-05 08:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by zildjian908 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she's testing the waters with you. If you were to get jealous of her friends, that's a sign. It also sounds like she was a tad nervous or maybe a little shy about talking to you in front of others. Women tend to show emotion all over their faces and she could have been worried that by talking to you, people would know you have been seeing each other and she might not be ready to answer questions about you guys yet. Best Advice? Say nothing except ask her out again. Time will reveal her true feelings.
2006-10-05 08:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like maybe you are just a "boy toy" to this girl and she is not serious about you. Just because a girl lets you kiss her does not necessarily mean she is interested in you, she likes to kiss. Have a talk with her and see where she is coming from. Good luck.
2006-10-05 08:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was her way of telling you that she isn't interested that deeply into you. Yes girls will kiss guys they're not into. It's fun and I'm sure she didn't mean to hurt you. I think she's starting to feel she's in too deep and wants you to know she was just having fun and that she isnt' ready to be tied down right now. Sorry.
2006-10-05 08:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like Bao Rongs idea, tell him there's something going on that you know about and ask him to go off as friends, and let things lead from there...
2016-03-27 06:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She jhyust probably wants to use ypu for monetary funds and nothing more. Maybe she is interseted but if i was interested in u i wouldn't let u c me with another guy so that i mess things up.
2006-10-05 08:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman will kiss u if she is interested or wants something out of u and knows u r interested.
She wouldn't kiss u for no reason
2006-10-05 08:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋