Has any of you waited around for your ex., and actually got back together. ?
Has any of you got back together with your ex after 6 months or longer (when the time you two split up she/he wanted nothing to do with you), and actually got back together with in time?
Is it worth the waiting (waiting on true love)?
When they wanted nothing to do with you when they split up and you thought you had lost that person for good, you actually got back together again after a long time?
Is any of this possible or has it happened to any of you?
I would love you guys to share your stories with me. And also answer my questions
Ones who have experienced this, tell me your stories.
Guys, I have dated alot and just let them go at times. This time instead of moveing on, I am going to be strong. This one is the Love of my life and I believe is my soul mate.
It hurts like Hell and Burns inside, but that is true love that is burning inside me.And I do know good things come to those who wait.
2006-10-05 08:28:34 · 13 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No such thing as waiting.
Life will move you on.
2006-10-05 08:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have this one female and we have been dating off and on for around 3 years. Alot of it had to do with me being in the Army and here finishing college. We still talk and things like that. Actually she is coming to visit me on the 13th. We have a good relationship and I think that we will probably move foward with it once I get back as long as we are still single and things like that. I would say that our relationship is a little weird but we understand it, which is what matters in the first place.
As for as tru love, I would have to say that "if it's meant to be then its meant to be". I believe that everything will work out in the end.
I never experienced a point where we didnt want anything to do with each other. We were always open about everything and talked everything out.
It's a crazy situation though, I think her visit will really define what we have thus far. I have loved her like no other and I have visions of us being together and married with happy lives. The only thing is I want to make sure that when that time comes, that's what I want to do with no hesitation. I can't really see myself with no one else besides her. Reasons being whenever I do talk to other people I get in a comparing mode where I compare the new female to my Courtney and the new one always loses. That's just another one of those things where I know she is the one. I just need to be ready for that step to take. I mainly want to wait till she graduated this up-coming May to see where she will start her career. There are tons of factors that we have to deal with that's why this process isn't easy and it get long.
Being in love does hurt sometimes when it gets broken or doesn't go your way but that's really life in general. What I would say is do what you believe is right and "The One" will come along. There is someone for everyone. Good Luck
2006-10-05 09:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my current wife for about a year to live with a younger woman. When I finally showed up at the front door and asked her to take me back, we were nine days from being devorced. It has been 25 years since that day. Our kids are grown now and all is well, but it is not easy and you will have breaking points. You just have to dig down deeper to keep the relationship alive. Sometimes you need to get closer, and sometimes you need some space between you. You have to learn how to live both ways. And, it is all worth it. If not the first time, then the second.
2006-10-05 08:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I split up for 7 months about 3 years ago. Although neither of us sat and waited for each other, which I wouldn't recommend you do either. It is better to see other people (I didn't say have sex). If you move on, you move on, if after a few months of dating you still find yourself in love with the ex, and he is still in love with you, work it out. My boyfriend and I are still together now.
2006-10-05 08:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody plays the fool at least once in life. Lord knows, I have. I was married for many, many years to a person I knew better about but like having sex and raising kids enough to stay in that unhealthy relationship. I am happier now to find someone with whom I can laugh, talk, trust, and find enjoyable and sexually stimulating as well. The sex is not the main thing - just a good thing. Go with your bliss and dump your guilt or outlandish feelings of traditional responsiblity and be real to the feelings inside that you know are true. Love will come and go - but for me I am the one travelling the long road with myself so I'd better make myself happy first - love ME first. Try it!
2006-10-05 08:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE has to be nurtured sometimes. Yes i just got back with my ex after leaving her and moving to the coast. But my actions were just the words GET RIGHT BEFORE YOU GET LEFT! That i needed to put out there and couldnt say! I do think its possible Otherwise I would still be Bartending on the coast
2006-10-05 08:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by aries23wilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in 1972, i met this guy and fell head over hills for him. i was 15 at the time and he was 21 and married. but separated. we went out a couple of times then he got back with his wife and life went on. I got married in 73 and had a son in 74. I divorced in 76 and moved back to the town we had met. i didn't know it but he had divorced too. one day he came to see me and we have been together ever since, 30 years of marriage. can you beat that one.
2006-10-05 08:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
broke up after a fight and after about 4 months we got back together. It ended again a few months later after she became very bossy.
2006-10-05 08:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way it will work is if you try to start completely fresh. If you continue to reflect on or bring up your baggae of the past, it will never work.
2006-10-05 08:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by Manning on the run 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have after 1 year! I waited because i knew he was the one.But sometimes they just don't work out. : (
2006-10-05 08:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by girley_hot_n_lonley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋