Hi, i know this is a fairly broad question and is different for each couple, but I'm just wondering how often couples generally fight. It seems once a week my gf and i have a big fight, not just a small argument. I know i love her, but we are just 2 very different people. I dont know if its 'normal' to be fighting this much, its just started happening over the past month or so, we've been going out close to a year. So, basically im just wondering how often other couples fight?
2006-10-05 08:23:54 · 7 answers · asked by x2345 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously ... I've never been in a fight with my BF ... we've been dating for 8 mths now and friends for years ... we have had a few times where we made each other frustrated ... with bad communication ... other than that the time just keeps getting better and better ... !
I watched him and his ex-girlfriend fight everyday ... so going into the relationship I thought he might like to argue ... boy was I wrong ... the way she treated him must have been the way he treated her ... !
We bring out the best in each other and that's the way it's suppose to be ... I've never felt love should be sooo hard and you have to work at it soooo much like my parents ... I feel love should come naturally and flow ... there should be more happy times than crappy sad times for sure ... !
2006-10-05 08:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this has been going on for only the past month, then something happened to provoke weekly arguments. I dont believe it's normal. And it certainly cant be fun for either of you. Does it seem that you basically fight over one particular thing. OR does it seem like everything? If nothing is bothering you, then perhaps she's trying to tell you something, and simply doesnt know how.
You need to see what's on her mind, that may be bothering her.
2006-10-05 08:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me and my now husband.. before we were married we would fight once in a while.. not too much before we had a long distance relationship before we were married.. and then when we saw each other on a regular basis it seemed to become worse.. now we are used to living together and compromise and worked out our problems. it seems that if u dont get a break from each other and hang out with your friends then there will be fights.. being with each other all the time isn't always good. i hope everything works out and if u two are meant to stay together.. you will.. you just know when you want to be with someone forever! good luck!!!
2006-10-05 08:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my fiance fight once or twice a week. But the big one at least twice a month. But its cause his family gets in the way. They dont call unless they need something. And when he wants something in return, no dice. But hes the dumb As$ as to do it. At times I want to leave him for it. i do love him. But if hes gonna do for his family and I cant do for mine its no use working it out
2006-10-05 08:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems like way too much. Find a girl more similar to your common interests.
2006-10-05 08:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hardly ever and the few rare occassions when we have its usually got people sticking thier noses where they don't need to be at the root of it.
2006-10-05 08:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as its not fist fights u should b fine. emotional things come and go, fights just make it interesting
2006-10-05 08:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋