2006-10-05 08:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by 007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get down on your knees to your child so you can have eye contact.
And clamly tell him/her with caring eyes what you need to say.
Keep it simple and ask, try not to tell.
Encourage him/her to do what you want by saying it would be nice, or I bet you can do that <<
After all, think how you would feel if someone taller then you orders you around. It would really piss you off and you would become defiant and go against them.
So, treat them like the little sweet people they are. And when they have eye contact with you and you get down on your knees you show them that you are taking the time for them.
Trust me this really does work. I have done it with my children. And let me tell you, when it was bedtime, they would go on there own. 8pm everynight and right to sleep.
You get what you put into it. It takes just as much effort to get down on your knees and have eye contact as it does to throw your voice out into the air and make it meanless to the child.
Once you tried it a few times, you will be amazed.
Good luck mom...you can do it.
2006-10-05 08:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U can't control 2 yrs old child..because a child's real memories come when they are 5 yrs old..just think about urself, what u remember when u were Before 5 yrs old???so they not gonna remember what u said not to do? they just know to follow ppl around.........
2006-10-05 15:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
childrens should be let free upto 5 yrs and shall be strict upto 13 yrs and should become a good friend upto 25 yrs . This will make him straight.
Experience in life is letting out these advice
2006-10-06 02:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one's easy... Assuming normal he is normal physically and mentally: discipline. NOT abuse, discipline. You have to keep in mind that a two-year old does not have the reasoning skills of an older child yet. It is a two-year old's job to learn about his/her world by testing the limits, which is exactly what they do.
Establish limits and stick to them. Don't give more than a couple of warnings at that age. They learn by observing your response to their actions and tantrums etc. Keep your cool, lest you surrender control to the child.
2006-10-05 15:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing. Be firm and be consistent. Children need to know the boundaries. Just know that soon it will all pass.
2006-10-05 15:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he too young ,u can mold by giving him love ignore the things what he did ,actually he want ur attention so its better to make him undestand what is wrong and what is right by giving him demonsation,give him more attention ,u will see change with in few days .
2006-10-06 00:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by mimiisin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i think you need to give some more details on what he is doing that you are having a hard time with. then maybe i can offer some solutions.
2006-10-05 15:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by flwrgrl692001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dicipline. If he hits you do like 5 min. time outs and so on.
2006-10-05 15:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by SkyferMcFLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋