we have been going out for a couple of months and i have broken up with him twice because i don't feel like he is the guy for me, but then he says he wants to wait for me and acts really sweet and i give in. he freaks me out, too. like one time i didn't answer his calls and he showed up at my house at 2 am, knocking on my window. he allways makes "jokes" about me seeing other guys. he is a little vulgar for me, and he talks about the big plans he has for us and i don't even feel like he knows me. he won't stop talking to me even when we break up. i don't know if he is sweet or psycho! oh, we work together, too.
2006-10-05 08:19:04 · 5 answers · asked by biachachacha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bad bad bad situation. You never date where you work. It sounds like this guy is obsessed with you. You need to tell him it's over and forget about him. Tell him you need some space from him that he's getting under your skin. Good luck!
2006-10-05 08:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say psycho. He sounds like he is obsessed with you and that can be very, very dangerous. You need to get away from him. Try talking to him and be honest. You don't really want to date him, let alone go along with the "big plans" that he has. If he doesn't get the clue, involve your local authorities. It is the only way that you can protect yourself. Good Luck!
2006-10-05 08:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds psycho to me. Be careful he may be the stalker type, sounds like he might be. At best he is controlling at worst he is psycho.
2006-10-05 08:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by the_news_junky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sort of brought this on yourself. b/c when you first broke up, that should have been it. this going back and forth stuff is never good. if you don't feel comfortable around him then you need to get out. tell him the truth that he scares you and that you don't feel safe around him. and if this continue then you will involve other people.
2006-10-05 08:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him, tell him exactly how you feel. Let him respond, and go from there.
2006-10-05 08:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by metevs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋