um, how can you like a guy to like you, like notice you, im really shy, and dont know how to actually say something to him, but i got kicked outta class yesterday and he talked to me!! i was really happy, but homecoming is this saturday, and idk, i really like him, except ppl say he does drugs, but it doesnt seem that way, what would you guys say??
2006-10-05 08:18:44 · 13 answers · asked by beachybabekac 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he does drugs, don't go near him. Be yourself. You don't need him, you just want to know him a little better. Just be happy with who you are and people will gravitate toward you...
2006-10-05 08:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of my friends do drugs and its not that they are necesarilly bad but they do get in trouble and are very succesful. Here is the thing, you want guys to notice you, get out there and be more social stop being in your comfort place and go talk to someone new and try to make friends like that, its basically if you are shy and that makes you uncorfotable then you are doing the right thing. As long as you continue to be in your comfort zone nothing will happen, what I do is I always say hi to people even if I never ever said a word to them before and know nothing about them. Some people call me crazy but I am very social. I also go to the mall and say hi to strangers its really funny and unusual, shame society is so closed off now a days.
2006-10-05 15:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They say honesty is the best policy, so here it goes:
The guy feelings towards you could be explain as a fork in the road; the right path is he probably do not like you for multiple reasons or the path on the left- he likes you but is as shy as you.
Guys in high school think about sex 24/7. So any opportunity they will get to seize the day, they will.
If at this point he hasnt notice you the best option is to be direct. Approach him and let him know that you are feeling him and you would like to know if he want to go to dinner later that night so you too could get to know each other.
If you do go out on the date, you should get to know if he is a champ or chump (on crack cocaine).
If you are happy ask him to homecoming.
Good Luck
p.s. i dont know how helpful this would be since tomorrow is friday so you have no time to establish any kind of relationship
2006-10-05 15:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by unorthogonal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you like a guy to like you? Did you get kicked out of english class?
Ask him if he's going to the dance with anyone and say that you haven't found anyone either and that you'd like to go with him. You sound extremely young; make the first move; some guys are just as shy.
Like, Good luck.
2006-10-05 15:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys in High School are only going to be interested in bad girls......so go break some rules! Just keep your GPA up enough to get into college!
2006-10-05 15:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him or just write him a note asking him if he would go with you to homecoming
2006-10-05 15:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you talked to him before, he didnt say anthing negitive to you, so I dont see why he wouldnt want to go. Ask him and dont get nervous about it.
2006-10-05 15:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by flip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you like him. trust me ive had this problem before. and if you have a problem with drug users then just break up with him if you find out he does that.
2006-10-05 15:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by chumply 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him a paper with your number on it and tell him to call you. talk to him on the phone and get to know him. if he's in drugs. move on you don't need that./
2006-10-05 15:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mini-skirt and braless shirt
2006-10-05 15:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋