there is this girl at schol that i love but she aint thant good looking and my friends think she is ugly but she is my best m8, one of her girlfiends told me that she loves me but i dunno if i belive them. But i reali want to gou out with her what should i do cos i dont wana ruin our friendship eather. but its driving my crazy. and if she went out with me iam sure my m8 wud tease me.
Please help
P.S I hope it makes sence
2006-10-05 08:09:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BUT WHAT IF SHE SES NO
2006-10-05 08:12:39 · update #1
don't worry what others think as long as she is beautiful in your eye's that's all that matters. i say ask her out
2006-10-05 08:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who care's what other people thing - if you like her and you think she's pretty that's all that matter's. Screw what your friends think - they might just be jealous. It sounds to me like you really don't know this girl very well or your just infatuated with her because, why can't you just ask her out - unless you really don't know her that well. And why would one of her friends tell you that the girl that you like loves you - that's kind of weird - unless she really does and your not making the moves and letting her know that you really like her. But yet - your worried that if you did go out with her -your friends would tease you. Screw your friends - their not really your friends if their going to laugh at who you go out with - find some new friends, ask this girl out and get it over with. And if she just wants you for a friend and not a boyfriend - then deal with it. I'm sure you've heard the old saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. And I'm just curious - are you Australian??? Just the way you word stuff makes me think that you are. Maybe not though - just curious.
2006-10-05 15:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by You'llneverguess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man. Ok this is easier than you think. First off, why are you even considering the opinions of your friends as far as her beauty goes? Obviously she is beautiful to you, otherwise you wouldn't feel the way you do about her. As far as "ruining the friendship", don't sweat it. Remember this: best mates always make the best lovers. I tell people this all the time and it's just so true. If you think your best guy friend is gonna poke fun at you for wanting to be with the one you love, then why is he even your friend. Sort out your priorities, consider what I've said, then make the desicion you feel is best. Have fun with it. Hope this helps and best of luck to you!
~D.
ps- if she turns you down, then don't worry about it. You are best friends. She may just need some more time, ya dig? You're fine.
2006-10-05 15:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by conservative_rocker1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You make perfect sense. You are worried that your friends will make fun of you because you want to date a girl that they think is ugly. Do you think that she is ugly? Do you really like her? If you care for her, then it won't matter what your friends think. If they tease you, then they are either jealous or are just plain stupid. Who cares what other people say. They do not have to live your life, you do. And, if you let them influence you, you could be missing out on one of the greatest things life has to offer and that is love. I hope that you make the right decision. Good Luck!
2006-10-05 15:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You were put on this earth for your happiness. Why would you let someone else take that away from you? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You are mature enough to see beyond the superficial. I think it is wonderful to see someone care about somebody else based on the inside. We are all beautiful, it just takes that special person to bring it out. You go for it, what a lucky girl.
2006-10-05 15:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by june clever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be friends with her for now and talk 2 her ALOT then like next week ask her out and if she says no then no 1 will make fun of u because every 1 gets rejected there is no person that has never gotten rejected plus who ever does make fun of u which if there even is any 1 just ignore them
2006-10-05 15:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Date her if you love her that much. As for you friend (mate) -->lol I'm from America, but never the less he should respect you for your felling and shouldn't tease you based on how a girl looks. So that proves he is a shallow person. Follow your heart dude. {{good luck}}
2006-10-05 15:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by nighthawk_revelations 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
f--k your m8's man if this girl is the real thing for you and you have a connection w/her then do it if you don't think its worth getting teased over then maybe she's not worth it but it their really your mates they'd understand if not f*#@'em u'll prolly be hanging out w/ your girl anyways if you think her friends are lieing to you like why would they do that sounds like your scared of wrecking your friendship w/ her and yeah that mite happen but if you like he rand want to be w/ her wot happens when she stars dating some one else will that wreck your friendship I SAY GO FOR IT NO GUTS NO GLORY no girl....
2006-10-05 15:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by <B> 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all what your friends say dont mean nothing its how you feel about her that matters now your not sure if she likes you but your crazy for her so just tell her if she says know then at least you know if you dont say anything then you will never know and it will eat you up on the inside till one day your older and stil wounder what if i said some thing you dont want that so go for it good luck
p.s what if she says YES
2006-10-05 15:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by ACE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she look good to you that all that matters. Tell your friend to back off and give you a break, you like her and that is that. If they tease don't pay them no mine there just jealous. They probably don't have a girl friend while they are laugh at you. Tell to get some business a leave yours alone!!!
2006-10-05 15:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by cattitude1970 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless you want to fall in love with your mate and marry him take the leap and ask her out if she feels the same youve got it! and if she says no dont bother it means you guys werent ment to be 2gether anyway.Life is too short for I WONDER!
2006-10-05 15:24:42 · answer #11 · answered by Sexybiatch 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋