I have been chatting with a girl online for a few months now, pretty much about everything and anything, last night she asked me if I'd like to "hook-up" with her for real, I totally freaked out and ended the conversation quickly, trying to avoid saying yes or no, I guess my question is has anybody "hooked-up" with someone they met online, if so was it bad, good, not sure, did something come of it? We are all adults so please only serious answers and you all know what "hook-up" means so no smart answers either.
2006-10-05 08:07:47 · 12 answers · asked by John H 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off you shouldn't just ignore her. If you get along really well chatting on-line then the next step is to talk on the phone. Then if things go good on the phone then yes "hook-up". You never know when your soul mate might be right there in front of you. Go for it!!!
2006-10-05 08:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by copswife93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for disapointment. Actually just don't expect anything to go a certain way. Most people online creat an image of what they want others to see and not what they really are. And even further, we sometimes imagine them to be a certain way without a whole lot of evidence.
Just ask yourself ' If she is not nearly as cute or pretty as I thought, am still going to be interested?"
It is much more scary for a girl to meet a guy then vice versa.
2006-10-05 15:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once arranged a meeting with a guy I met online, and it turned out that he was a wanted sex offender. This girl may be for real, but "she's" probably just another 40-something year-old pervert living in his parents basement.
2006-10-05 15:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did once..it wasn't a bad thing but i was only 21 and wasn't ready for anything serious..if you like going out and having a good time with friends then go for it if it becomes something more well thats the plus..everyone should do it once!
2006-10-05 15:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by sherry p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online dating is the new "it thing" so i say go for it. (but only go if you are sure) but when you do don't go into thinkin that she is the one. b/c you never know. when you do hook up go somewhere very well lit, never meet her somewhere that is going to take you far out. and never leave her alone with any of your stuff (key, money,car, apart, etc) but when you start to feel her out then i stay your mind will know how to go from there.
good luck, and becareful
2006-10-05 15:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to set a day tht both of u guys could meet and see if u both of u have athe same feelings if not just say im sry i don't have the feelings i thought tht i would for u and than don't hook up but if u do the hook up and don't worry about the future just have fun and enjoy wat u got!!!
2006-10-05 15:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by hello my name is stephanie<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have before, and it was good for a while. It was no worse then a normal relationship, if you like the girl, go for it.
2006-10-05 15:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by countrygirl66032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be best if you simply meet for coffee or dinner before you decide to "hook up."
2006-10-05 15:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be carefull .it could really just be a fat ugly old man . preying on young boys . ask lots of questions ...dont do any thing you dont want to do ... have a friend or parent present.
2006-10-05 15:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by vince g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least once a week from Craigs list
2006-10-05 15:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋