I'm cofused.
I ended a long-term relationship out of anger. I realize i was wrong. But i definitely thought it was gonna be just a fight and we were going to get back together.I found out he tried calling me several times, which i never knew about (until now). Anyways, i still love him....and it's hard not to,we were together for 3 years.
The way things ended between us was retarted.We didn't discuss anything......it was just over.I saw him the a week later and i expected him to make a move, but he didn't.I honestly thought he had his mind set on letting me go.And it was just the same for him.He thought my mind was set to forget him.But i didn't want to forget him,i wanted to work things out.I admit i was acting foolish and hurt.(by the way...don't let ur emotions take over!)....and now.....a month has passed and i found out he is seeing another girl.
What is he doing?....does he really not love me anymore?
................(to be continued....)......................
2006-10-05 08:06:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
....it hurts to know he's doing that, but i can also admit defeat. I just wish i knew if there was anything i could do to get him back. But........what if he really likes this girl and forgot about me already?
should i still hold hope? should i talk to him and clear things up?.........or should i just walk away from the guy i love with all my heart?
2006-10-05 08:09:23 · update #1
I'm a mature guy with experience, however, the question is to long to answer.
2006-10-05 08:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you guys aren't exactly the great communicators. You let a month go by and you never discussed it? Well it's obvious he thought that you didn't want him anymore. If someone calls and he doesn't get a response, then what is he supposed to think?
Why did he have to talk to you? You blew it by not talking to him. Swallow your pride and go talk to him or call him and tell him about the misunderstanding. IT still might be too late but who knows. Never burn a bridge and always communicate. Good luck.
2006-10-05 15:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same mess right now but reversed roles
alot of issues causing split he still loves you he's
just trying to help ease the pain which he wont admit to : )
by seeing other people if you want it to work and you ended it
then you need to step up and explain your feelings and your
wants and will give him the chance as well good luck
if it is true love that love and pain never goes away that i know
2006-10-05 15:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by king richard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can he not stil have feeling he does but some times its better not to feel the hurt that is inside so he is trying to forget mabe you should do the same after three years mabe its time to find a new love if your ment to be than he will come back to your if not you tru love will be waiting
2006-10-05 15:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes movin on. why did you wait for him to make a move? most guys dont understand subtle hints. tell him that you still love him and see where it goes from there. the worst thing that could happen is yall not gettin back together...atleast then you will know.
2006-10-05 15:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumped him, and he never heard from you, for whatever reason.
He's moved on and you should do the same.
2006-10-05 15:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by JaMoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one who dumped him. good for him for moving on.
2006-10-05 15:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have explained the fight more...why did you break up?
2006-10-05 15:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by bob888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋