i don't know if i am over reacting anout this but; my boyfriend and a girl that we both know, they are e-mailing and texting eachother all the time. he keeps telling me that there is nothing going on, and i really don't fell that there is anything going on, but she will text things like "good morning sexy", call me asap., and he wil text things like "how's my babygirl doing?" i have talk to her and my man about this already and she tells me that there is nothing going on., and when i called her from his cell. she didn't act any differnet with me at all. i feel like i can trust her to a certain degree, but it's really bothering me a whole hella of alot. am i over reacting or am i right for feeling the way i do?????????????????
2006-10-05 07:57:40 · 13 answers · asked by minibiker22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's obvious, isn't it, that they're flirting with one another? They may both be SAYING that nothing's going on, but haven't you heard "Action speaks more than words"?
There may not be anything going on - for NOW; but it doesn't look good down the road, gf.
Btw, does that other girl have a bf? If so, why don't you just give her a taste of her own medicine? As far as you own bf is concerned, I'd dump him if I were you. But that's just me.
Oh and No - you're not over-reacting. You're only human.
2006-10-05 08:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by ¿What Now? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something going on.My best friend(ex) tried to tell me there was nothing going on with her and my ex.I believed it for a long time , later I found out they had something going on and are still together today.I trusted her more than anybody.Now I don't trust anyone.Sounds like your b/f and friend have definately got something going on.Trust your instincts.You know deep down that they are betraying you.Sometimes it's just hard to face the truth
2006-10-05 08:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry that is a fear of losing ur boyfriends undercircumstances of betaryal. don't over react otherwise u will completely lose ur bf. Take my example I have two friends who both are women and both are married and have kids. but I called them honey and even their husband also knows about this.
And a practical solution is if u can afford to spend some money then arrange a private detective to spy on ur bf and that girl
2006-10-05 08:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a selfish pig ! I would never dis-respect the woman I am with like that ! He is aware it bothers you a LOT and doesn't want to stop, because don't give give a crap or there IS something going on ! Tell him he can have her and find a man that respects you ! He is BOY !
2006-10-05 08:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by logan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do. What do they have something going on to see how far they can push you before flipping out? I would end this ASAP!!! Next time one of his friends are over start flirting with him. See how he likes it. Good luck!
2006-10-05 08:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would ditch da dude! I mean they r tellin eachother that they care about eachother and then there you r over there being the 3rd stick! Don't let him & her push u round like that!
2006-10-05 08:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by mariah!:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is really your friend then this should not even be happening that should not be a concern talk to ya and set him straight tell him that its botherthing you and you want it to stop if he does it than there is or never was any thing going on if he dosent than there is and you should find out what
2006-10-05 08:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like something is going on to me. You don't talk to a a friend like this. Babygirl I mean come on. DUMP HIM!!!!
2006-10-05 08:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy! I think they are trying to get a rise out of you and succeeding in doing it. Whining isn't very attractive.
2006-10-05 08:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it seems that it is actually quite bothering. Talk to him seriously and explain him that that too familiar tone he uses with that girl should only be used with YOU!!!!
2006-10-05 08:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋