i recently had a friend at work who helped out of a very big jam I had. She drove across town to pick me up and take tme to work. After pay day, I brought her some cheezies and a card. she loves cheeziers and well i wrote a nice thank-yuo note. Now when I gave it to her she seemed to not want it and say I didnt have to do it. Said she would have done it without payment. .All I did was try to show appreciation was I wrong to do this ??
2006-10-05 07:43:28 · 10 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for the responses folks could use a few more here I would like others peoples opinion on htis
2006-10-05 08:10:16 · update #1
No, but its human nature to feel a little embarassed. Deep down, I bet she really appreciated the gesture. I know that I would have even if I told you it wasn't necessary. Society has bred us to think that its wrong to show our thanks. .. It isn't ....Here's a pound of kudos sent your way, Man!!!!!!!! :) ;)
2006-10-05 07:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by KoKo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. It was the way you chose to show your appreciation. There are people out here who do thing selflessly for others and they wouldn't think of taking money or gifts for their services. But its very good that you did want to show your gratitude.
2006-10-05 14:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you weren't wrong, you were very nice. Maybe she thought you wanted to date her or something. Maybe she has never gotten a thank you note and didn't know what to do.
2006-10-05 14:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by bcrazycaroline18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a good thing. Maybe she just wasn't used to getting
thanked.
2006-10-05 14:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, that was very nice of you. It's not like you tried to pay her, and it shouldn't ahve made things uncomfortable at all.
That was very nice of you.
2006-10-05 14:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by misscongeniality711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people do not want a thank you on that level, a simple "thank you" from your lips is enough at times.
2006-10-05 14:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by thepoet01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it was wrong... maybe she is one of those women who dont really get a thank you and it just kind of shocked her.
2006-10-05 14:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by KitKat4106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all,it sounds like you are a giveing person.
2006-10-05 14:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was embarrassed
2006-10-05 14:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-05 14:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by success532 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋