Why do some women when a guy has made his intentions apparent about getting to know them over lunch or a chance meeting they do not acknowledge it yay or nay. They hear and listen and go on like nothing. All the while knowing the brother is waiting. I mean do not nothing to discourage or encourage.
Okay, I understand the woman is put on the spot nor does she want to jump at the chance for appearing over eager. We men recognize this and nudge just a little bit. Still nothing after two attempts anything beyond that I do not consider the chase and hunt between two sexes. In this day and age, it is considered harrassment.
So how does a brother know with nothing to go on and ladies this is not an isolated incident I'd say 80% of the women are prone to this type of behavior, why I ask?
2006-10-05 07:39:49 · 9 answers · asked by 817_TX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say if she doesn't say yes right off the bat then she's not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Why cant men get better at knowing the signs whether its ok to move in and ask ?? Sometimes I can tell a guy wants to come over and talk to me and I know I want nothing to do with it so I dont make any eye contact, I turn away and he still approaches. Puts me in the difficult spot.
2006-10-05 07:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am the lady in this same situation, kind of. Like the guy asked me to hang out after church and stuff, so i think he is just being friendly because he doesn't make any sort of obvious move, even after I send him a boatload of encouragement, but
I do it so stealthy because I am scared to make my feelings known. But eventually someone has to take the risk, and personally I think it should be the guy. They are used to this type of rejection while women are not!
2006-10-05 14:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cos if you ask her in the same way as you asked this question, she problem didnt have the faintest clue that you had asked her out as she will have shut off after the first 5 mins.
try being more direct and waffling on less and you ll soon be out at lunch
goodluck
x
2006-10-05 14:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your lunch date or 'chance meeting' scenario over apparent intentions isnt that apparent ..nor is your back up for this. You apparently are quite ambiguous. Better make yourself clearer next time. ;)
2006-10-05 14:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey, take it as her answer was a no.
move on to another woman that will bask in your glorious presence.
2006-10-05 14:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Huh?
2006-10-05 14:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a lot to learn!
2006-10-05 14:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seek and yea shall find..!
2006-10-05 14:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Doubting Thomas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
would love to answer,but what ???
2006-10-05 14:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋