So I meet this lovely guy and we text each other for a few weeks. He gioves you compliments all the time and you get on really well If he doesn't text for over a week or reply to your texts is it okay too text again or are you a stalker?! How long do you leave it for and what do you say? Help!!
2006-10-05 07:30:42 · 14 answers · asked by Vicky H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't text him back! It will make you look desperate. Guys want what they can't have, so ignore him and let him come back to you.
2006-10-05 07:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to text, but the problem is that you come across as desperate. For your own self-respect you should let him do some of the running, otherwise he'll know that he's got you wrapped around his finger. A lot of psychology and power playing goes on in these things. If you just want a casual fling then go ahead and text. If you want something more serious then you have to ask yourself why he's ignoring you. Is that the way you imagined your "Mr Right" to be?
2006-10-05 14:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm goin through the same thing with this girl I met about a month and a half ago. We been out on a few dates, got the first kiss out of the way, holding hands in public, and all that lovy-dovy $hit. As of late though she hasn't been responding to my phone calls like she said she would. So I sent her one final e-mail lettin her know that enjoy talking to her and hop she would talk to me if anything is going wrong in her life. After I sent the message I made the decison to just back off. If she has any feelings for me she will respond, if not, there are plenty of other women out there with great qualities that I can get to know. Keep ya head up pimpin'
2006-10-05 16:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Stymie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never understand why women can never call people back, or text them back unless the man does first. This makes no sense. It always seems one-sided in the relationship. Who says that all men like the chase of a women? I don't want to chase a women down the street asking for her phone number or something.
2006-10-05 14:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on! There are better people out there for you. It's his loss if he's not interested, and he shouldn't have been worth the energy that you spent on texting him and typing this question. You just want people to confirm your gut feeling that he's not interested, that's all
2006-10-05 15:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard but trust me it's a cat and mouse game! Play the waiting game and DO NOT text back. Let them contact you now and if they don't, well they wasn't for you anyway.
2006-10-05 14:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Maxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont run after someone, ever. Why do you want somebody who doesn't want you ? He knows your # and can call you if he wants. What is the point in continuing to text him ??
2006-10-05 14:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probally married. If not hes playin it cool or hes met someone else give him a text and ask him out what ya got to loose.
2006-10-05 14:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Stevie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o0o0o dats a bad one!! dont txt him back he might seem desperate to him or maybe he just doesnt feel the same so let it go
2006-10-05 14:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont text him, you'll look desparate, and when you dont come running it will drive him crazy if he is actually intrested in you, if he doest txt you then hes not interested so just move on
2006-10-05 14:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋