This guy in my college i feel am so in love with him but i just try to say to myself he's just a guy..my heart beats faster whenever he is around and my legs keep shaking..its been 7 months since i first felt this way and its still happening..
he always stare at me and when i asked him y he said no reason u just look attractive..but he keeps holding my hand and try to find any reason to hold it and play with my cheeks and stuff .. once i was talking to him about college and stuff and my best friend was there with us. then he suddenly said i love you( his voice got lower once he said it)..i pretended i didnt hear him I didnt say a word for almost 5 seconds then i tried to continue talking about the collegeso what is his intentions..is he playing around? or what?
2006-10-05 07:11:01 · 17 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant ask him out coz one of the gurls in college said he has a gf and she knows him really well
2006-10-05 07:13:56 · update #1
by the way Boys I dont need your help..not at all
2006-10-05 07:14:55 · update #2
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He's playing you like a foooooooool.
I would kick him!
2006-10-05 07:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by Fitty4ex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he loves you too. He is giving you all kinds of signs but he is trying to see if you feel the same about him befroe he really makes his move. He dont want to make a move just for you to say "what? I dont love you!". He is trying to see where you stand. The next time he takes your hand and he looks at you, you look at him back straight in the eyes and see how long you look at each other. If you stare for a while its like he is trying to read your soul and see if its a possibility that yall could be together, and I think on day when yall are alone and he is showing you the signs just go for it and talk about the future and see where things will lead you. I think a SERIOUS relationship with him is in your future.
And you can not go by hear say. You wont know if he has a girlfriend unless you actually ask him. Just because someone told you that he did dont mean that he really has one. She could be telling you that so that she can have her chance to get with him since she know how he acts with you and how you feel about him. Ask him our self and if he says no then there go for it but if he says yes dont show any emotions of being sad or upset just say ok and keep going.
2006-10-05 07:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man likes you and you like him - but you're not sending him any signals that you like him. You're confusing the crap out of him and that's not nice. Do you know how hard it can be for a man? Women get approached all the time, men almost NEVER do, and when they do it's not by anyone hot.
Touch his arm, smile, lean on him, RESPOND to his advances. When he stares at you, smile, then look at the ground, then look at him sideways with a little smirk. Let him know you're interested for God's sake!
I know you don't want to get hurt, but that's the risk you take every single time - how many men have you said NO to?, and how many did you say NO to in a less than congenial fashion?
And yes, you DO need our (men's) help. He might have a gf, so go ASK him, discreetly.
2006-10-05 07:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he has a gf and see what he says.
he just sounds like a flirt in my opinion. why would he say he loves you when he doesnt know you that well. have you ever gone on a date or spent more than a day with him?
if he has a gf and says he loves you thats worse!!
2006-10-05 07:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by iamlaura2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has a g/f, why are you letting him touch you and flirt with you? If he's taken, he's off limits. The next time he touches you or says something flirty to you, ask him "hey, don't you have a g/f?"
2006-10-05 07:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me taht he really likes you and he 's just unsure about the way you feel ask him out or make an excuse to see him and tell him the way it is better to do it now. good luck
2006-10-05 07:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by FlossyQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but he is just as scared as you are. If he does not break the ice then you need to do it.
2006-10-05 07:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Clyde R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are equally awestruck
he openly expressed his opinion -
proceed as needed by your feelings
best wishes!
2006-10-05 07:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like 2nd grade.....
Are you SURE you said college?
gifted children maybe?
GEEZ!!!!! Grow up!!!
2006-10-05 07:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to say it cause he likes you but to me it seems like he is just goofing around.
2006-10-05 07:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋