Where to take this girl?

Question

I've been going out with this girl for a little over a week now. The first date was preceded by us hanging out at the mall. It was a last minute thing. She wanted to hang out. The next night we were supposed to go bowling, but she says she doesn't like bowling, so we end up having dinner and going to the batting cages. For the rest of the night we drive around town trying to find a park that isn't occupied, with no success. She also tells me that she doesn't really enjoy going to the movies, but she does enjoy playing videogames. What else is there to do? Yesterday, I picked her up and brought her back to my place, then we went to eat, washed my car, and then walked around the park for a while. I want to do something with her this weekend, but she doesn't seem to like doing much of anything.

The thing is that she is very much a people person. She's always hanging out with someone. Haunted houses she hates.

Answer 1

Invite her to your place to play video games and order pizza

Answer 2

Surprise her with something. Even if it's something she would have told you she doesn't enjoy, if you two are into each other, she might enjoy it more than she expects.

And since she likes video games, take her to an arcade, amusement park, putt-putt course. Somewhere that you can do something else but if it doesn't work out, you can fall back on the games they always have there.

Answer 3

You went to the batting cages? LOL.

Well, damn, I was going to suggest the batting cages, but you've already done that. Since she likes video games and not much of anything else, I'd say she sounds like a stoner. So get her baked and play some games, and maybe you'll get lucky. There's 3 things to do.

Answer 4

I was gonna say bowling. How about a Dave and Busters if there is one by you. You could maybe also try roller blading, ice skating, paint ball. I guess it's hard, sometimes doing nothing is more fun then anything else. Maybe the two of you could have game/movie/hook up night at your house or hers and just chill.

Answer 5

Take her to an amusement park!! Most water parks are closed. They have arcades in the parks these days too. Or go to a mall that has a video game place. How about minature golf??

Answer 6

know what? i don't really like doing any of that kind of stuff, either, except maybe the movies. why don't you ask her who her favorite band is... and go hang out at a music store looking at albums before dinner or something?

take the wheel! plan something that she can't say no to but is still neutral.. like going to the museum or something and then grabbing a tea. maybe she's just laid back and wants to hang. maybe she isn't comfortable doing lots of things she feels goofy doing until she knows you better. if you both really like eachother you'll find things you'll both enjoy before you give up trying to spend time with eachother. good luck!

Answer 7

Try to go somewhere or do something unique and out of the ordinary. You went to the batting cages with her? Maybe she likes baseball, you should take her to a game even if it is just a cheap minor league thing.

Answer 8

It sounds to me she is not a people person why dont you make a night at home with a movie dinner candles so on. It doesn't matter what you do as long as you two want to be together and are together. Just because she doesnt like things out bring them to her.

Answer 9

Take her to the train tracks. Any true lady loves the tracks. There's nothing better than a freight train going by at the sunset.

P.S. Throwing rocks at the train driver instantly makes you look cool.

Answer 10

Take her to an arcade! She likes video games, so it's perfect. Most arcades also have photo booths of some sort or another. You guys could take a picture to remember the fun you have (had)!

Answer 11

...she obviously needs a kick in the behind what are you like do you like doing more adventuress things? Well if so do something fun and if she likes hanging out with you she will follow the lead and maybe get some interest?!