it seems like its the little things that we fight about.lately hes been yelling at me in front of people or telling his friends things then they come to me about it. i dont know what i should do..i love him very much but the time just isnt worth it.
2006-10-05 06:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sheesh... move on. you should not have to take this from him, and you should not have to ask what to do. you are a strong woman, and you don't need this guy. forget the "discussion" because this guy is obviously showing his true colors.
2006-10-05 07:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ sf_ca ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is worth saving: talk it out. Don't be accusatory by saying things like "You always do this or that", Don't insult ur partner, and when you see things are not moving along and the conversation get stuck STOP. Take a break before it escalates.
If it is not worth saving: tell him you love him but u need ur space to work out some things solo and it has been a good run but now it is time to move on.
2006-10-05 14:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by mekhia81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried having a serious discussion about why you always fight? Honestly, if it's just him not having respect for you, that isn't cool. Two years is a long time, he might not be the same guy you fell in love with back then.
In other words, tell him to quit being an a$$ or else you're gonna leave him.
2006-10-05 13:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by canadamoose22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, around the 2 year mark every relationship goes through a power struggle where the 2 peeps begin to fight and stuff. He may be starting to realize that the things he found cute about you are starting to annoy him and you may be having the same feelings. Me and Girl are oing thru the same thing. Talk to him, if you guys dont talk it out then it will never get resolved. Good luck
2006-10-05 14:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he loves you as much as you love him? well try just telling him what the problem is and agree on taking a time off but none of yous two can have anybody else for anything ok that time is going to be to see if you really love him and can't be with out him that's what i tried to do but he didn't want to and then the next day we faught again and i just told him i couldn't talk it anymore he was heart broken and i was too i couldn't believe that something so stupid like that could make me break up with him i couldn't go on with it and i asked him to give me another chance and everything is changed it is all good now. we are going to be a year on november and i love him
2006-10-05 14:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We fight over little things too...stupid things, it seems like, and we've only been together 6 months, but I think that's just you guys getting to know each other and learn each other. After 2 years, you guys know a lot about each other but it seems you aren't communicating well. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he still acts like jerk and disrespects you, I would kick him to the curb.
2006-10-05 14:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my girl had the same problem and 99% of the time it was my fault.it was me acting like a (Lil) *****! just to have a reason to do something stupid.i didn't know what i had until i almost lost her.she left and even though i had all the freedom in the world i couldn't breath.my point is he knows that you love him and he don't think that you will leave him.give him a Lil scare for few days and if you think he deserves you when you guys hook back up lay your rules down.because us men can be real dic-heads.
2006-10-05 14:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by equality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing with my girlfriend...it got some much that we had to break up and get back together....maybe sometime apart may help the both of you gain the value back...that plus talking
2006-10-05 14:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by hiyuken_music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is, you obviously need to take a break. By taking a break, you'll see if you miss him a lot or if you don't. Then you'll know if you really want to be with him or not. Good Luck and I hope all goes well.
2006-10-05 14:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by honeybfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. 1 think could lead to another. you could be yelling at one moment and then he might hit you. then you will be in an abusive relationship.
2006-10-05 14:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋