can you please help me and tell me what to do? all of my ex-es have great relationships and i am left alone....i am not happy....will i find the one??
2006-10-05 06:54:32 · 7 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't look for a guy to marry; that will only chase away the good ones, and attract those who would use you.
As some others have suggested, get other things going in your life. Not only will they distract you and give you other interests, but, by pursuing those interests, you'll be in a position to meet and get to know lots of people (including men and men friends of those new friends).
But don't be in a hurry. You don't NEED to "find the one" right this second.
When you go from relationship to relationship, you don't learn about yourself and what you want, and don't develop independence. If you give yourself some time alone, you can gain perspective that will help you appreciate a good guy when you find him.
2006-10-05 10:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't find happiness just because you're in a relationship. Only you can make yourself happy. Once you're a happy person this will reflect in how others see you and you might attract a man.
I didn'f find someone to marry until I was 38. I didn't measure my happiness by or feel unfulfilled as a woman because I was single for so long. I just wanted to make sure I married the right man.
2006-10-05 07:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can be the one for you. I am also 27
2006-10-05 06:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're linking your happiness with being in a relationship. Now, I suppose one could argue that relationships make one happy. And perhaps they should, if a relationship doesn't make you happy then why be in it?
But....that does NOT mean that you have to be unhappy unless you're in a relationship. Find some other things that make you happy.
2006-10-05 06:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope so girl cause I am 31 and in the same. You have to have hope. Thats what gets me through.
2006-10-05 07:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call ask Gary!
2006-10-05 06:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pm me right now
i caN HELP YOU
2006-10-05 07:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by sextherapist99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋