this guy that i met a little while ago, i've come to like quite a bit-- we have fun whatever we're doing, and we can just hang out with me and him and do nothing and be fine. the first night we hung out with just us, it took a minute but eventually we were all cuddled up in a luv sac, then he called me one night while i was sick just to talk, and when i was with him last night i was sitting on the love sac and he was on the couch, and we were just watching a movie, but like an hour later he finally came and laid with me in the luv sac, and when we cuddle like that he loves to tickel me and kiss me lightly-- do you think this is potential couple material? any SERIOUS advise or thoughts please
2006-10-05 06:54:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he wants the relationship, but is afraid that it will ruin the friendship if it all goes wrong.
I've been in his situation before; and always regretted not taking it any further, I still have the girls as friends, but always wonder what might have been.
It sounds like you're acting like a couple already, so you might as well take it to the next step, see what happens.
2006-10-05 07:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by judgedredd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not enough to go on. I mean guys go through phases when they like to cuddle but that doesnt mean the want the person they are cuddling with. YOu have to find out the only way to know is to ask! YOU JUST gotta ask and dont try to read into things, cause youwill be wrong.
2006-10-05 14:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing, cuddling, enjoying each other's company.....yeah, sounds like couple material to me. Why don't you suggest to him that you two see what it's like to actually become a couple. It's obvious you both have the hots for each other. All the signs are there, so go for it honey!
2006-10-05 14:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i join? no right, so beside his intention are just wanting you in bed or not, you want him. What you are not sure about is this guy good or not? Well he is good for sure in getting you to like him, but it might be just to fast. Well me and my girl talked for 2 months and start dating in 5 days after that. I got in the bed part very earily and we are together for almost 3 years. So there are guy that will love you and guy that will use you. so you have to ask your heart what you want.
2006-10-05 14:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds great, but at some point you should have him define your relationship. If he doesn't plan to consider you a couple, you should find out soon, before he starts using you.
2006-10-05 14:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by twoshotjudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i think you got you a winner do he have a brother lol cause i need a good man like that smile but hold on to him and enjoy every min with him cause you dont find to many men like that i not even trying to have sex thats good but maybe you need to try with him and see if that what he wont because he might just want to be friends you know and you want more but regardless hold on to him dont wont lose a good man ( good luck )
2006-10-05 14:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by sexygirl_looking4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it sounds like you have fun and he isn't pushing for sex
that's nice but i think the fact that he didn't come and sit by you was kinda weird so be careful and dont push anything and dont call or text or anything let his work for you and then see where it goes from there
2006-10-05 14:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he likes you and he seems like a shy type but don't worrie i'm shy to its not a bad thing.
take it slow and when he feels comfortable he will ask and if not don't worry
P.S. never force a guy to do something he doesnt want to do on his own
you can incorage him but don't keep bringing it up nor bug him
2006-10-05 13:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM ON THE SAME BOAT!!!...lol..HELP ME TOO!!
2006-10-05 14:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by He's my Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋