if the guy falls in love with a girl nd finally get the guts to tell her nd she truns around nd tells him dat she is gettin married and on top of that it is arranged marrage...
2006-10-05 06:21:48 · 26 answers · asked by fijianballer85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It seems as though the arranged marriage is going to happen no matter what. If she doesn't love this guy it will probably only make things worse for her if you tell her - you know, one more thing to stress and regret over. If she does love him and is happy about the arrangement, still don't tell her because I believe things happen for a reason. There are a gazillion girls out there and maybe you just need time to find someone else and let her live her life. Who knows? You may find someone even better for you out there.
2006-10-05 09:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Molly1015 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing the guy can do, except move faster next time. It is unfair to show his interest now that she has accepted a proposal. Interest may or may not develop into a relationship. Arranged or not, the girl is getting married. That is somewhat of a gurantee of companionship and support, while the guy's interest is just, well interest.
Sounds like the guy is most attracted to what is unavailable to him.
2006-10-05 06:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough luck. Time to move on. Isiliye kehte hai dil ki baat kehne mein kabhi der nahi karne chahiye. Ab samjha?
For English speaking people, I guessed this guy is an Indian so I wrote to him in Hindi. What I said was, This is exactly why one shouldnt delay conveying feelings of the heart. Got it now?
2006-10-05 06:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Krishna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's harsh. But sometimes that is the way it goes. You just have to move on. I know that is hard but you don't have much of a choice. But if the marriage is arranged then does she want the marriage? Can she stand up and say no? I wish you the best. Sorry that this has happened to you.
2006-10-05 06:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her find out if she really wants to get married to the man she is suppose to get married to. If she is not ready for it then see what canbe done about it but if she is serious then I am sorry I donot know what to say. Good Luck
2006-10-05 07:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by LadySonia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first ask her if she really loves this guy that is arranged for her if she says no then tell her how you feel and see her reaction. Then see how things go from there. Well I hope things work out for you.
2006-10-05 06:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Find out how she feels about the arranged marriage BS. If you're invited to the wedding, speak up when asked to or forever hold your peace.
2006-10-05 06:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mussmania 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
DID YOU SINCERELY
WHERE WERE YOU WHEN SHE WAS GETTING ENGAGED DATING ?
NEVERTHELESS,
DECLARE YOUR LOVE AFFECTION AND INTENTIONS
ASK IF SHE WOULD CONSIDER YOU AS A MARRIAGE PARTNER
UNTIL "...THE WEDDING RING IS ON THE FINGER..." SHE IS AN UNMARRIED
WOMAN AND PROPOSALS OF MARRIAGE MAY BE OFFERED AND DISCUSSED
WITH THE FAMILY
ARRANGED MARRIAGES SUGGEST A CULTURAL TRADITION OF DISCUSSING THIS WITH THE FAMILY
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
2006-10-05 06:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Move on
2006-10-05 06:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by whoamihere32 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a soap opera to me.
2006-10-05 06:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋