I was talking with this girl and she was very nice perfect relationship and after few wks she was in total control asking for me to change and suggesting every third day that we should break up, at the same time saying wonderful things about me and our relationship. Yesterday I told I don’t like this attitude and we should stop. I am wondering what she is thinking now.
2006-10-05 06:14:39 · 14 answers · asked by stock2004dc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She was trying to control you and keep you on a leash. Good for you for putting your foot down! Don't let girls like that control you. If after what she told you, she's leaves, then good, you don't need someone like that anyway! If she stays, she'll probably realize that you won't take her crap anymore, and start treating you better.
2006-10-05 06:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say that you shouldn't have to change for anyone. Never, you should be loved for who you are always. I do not know what to say about the rest except maybe to her your perfect relationship was not perfect, she might need drama, bad relationships in the past for her maybe or just has problems ya know.
2006-10-05 13:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by Misty C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on with your life. You don't need to be with a controlling person. Life together with someone is all about working together. You deserve a loving person, not controlling. If you stay with her then it only gets worse as the years pass.
2006-10-05 13:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what she's thinking. She's obviously not thinking straight if she can't make up her mind about staying together, breaking up etc. You need to figure out why you want to be with her and if you do then realize, she's not going to change. So if you can live with that, cool, if not, don't worry about what she's thinking, put your tennis shoes on and RUN! Run as far away from her as you can, personally, I think she sounds danerous.
2006-10-05 13:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably mad. But if she wants you to change you then she definitely does NOT like you for who you are. She's a control freak and you should stop going out with her. Move on.
2006-10-05 13:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes playin games with you and before long your head will really spin. Get out while the goins good.
2006-10-05 13:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself ONE question, do you want to go through this kind of **** day in and day out for the rest of your life? Life can be long!
2006-10-05 13:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by jovi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter what she is thinking? she is crazy. she definitely wants control. and she does that by threatening to break up. there is no sense in waisting your time with this girl any longer.
2006-10-05 13:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by mdbdyot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i think that she doesnt really lik u anymore and shes treating u w/ breakin up but never does then oes back being nice to mess w/ ur head andm ake u break up w her so she doesnt have tthe reputation of doin it
2006-10-05 13:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by chevy_man301 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? Hell, there is nothing worth that ****. I am not changing anything about myself. If they think I do then they don't like me as I am and only see potential of what they think I should be. **** THAT!!!!
2006-10-05 13:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋