how do you know when they are using and how do they act??? my boyfriend says he doesnt but i heard from someone that he has .... how does it affect you mentally and sexually
2006-10-05 06:00:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry meant6 has anyone ever dated someone who used cocaine or did it themselves
2006-10-05 06:01:23 · update #1
I haven't dated anyone that uses it but that can't be a good thing..
2006-10-05 06:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unfortunately I dated a woman whom started using the chemical. I was unaware of the usage at the time. She was having mood swings, hyper activity at times, depression when she'd drop of it. Sexually there were periods when she was in dire need to satisfy her lust and other times she wasn't interested in the slightest.
If was an emotional roller coaster and something I would rather not experience again. We broke up and that was for the better for me. We still stay in contact so I can say that her poor decision to use drugs has been echoed in most of her life long life choices. Whereas she's not on it any longer (her finances will not allow it), she still punctuates her sad life with as much weed as she can mooch off others.
Personally, give the BF the benefit of the doubt for now. When you actually determine he's using illicit drugs I suggest you simply say that behavior like that cannot be part of your life and walk away.
2006-10-05 13:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the symptoms of people using cocaine is youll notice that person likes to suck on straws, always has a little baggy somewhere, and runny nose. They dont like to use the shower or they do or they dont wash their hair, something about using cocaine and washing your hair drives them nut. If they are always talking about it also or keep to themselves but youll notice in the people that they hang out with! The rule is if three or more people said he did coke well sweety he did it... I know this because I was a coke addict.. ohh and sexually it turns them into a pumping animal but after 10 or 20 min they are all out of energy, sex should last at least one hour an a half, one hour and ten min for woman and twenty min for a man.. Remember if he is denying it hell never change....
2006-10-05 13:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People who use cocaine are quiet often very moody and depressed after they use it. Look for behavior like that, especially on a weekend. They will also be exhausted from being up all night, and when there on it, they can tend to act nervous and talk alot. Who are the ones telling you he uses? What might there motive be for telling you? Are they jealous or perhaps trying to undermine your relationship for there benefit? How reliable are they? If you can't get the answer you want, then perhaps you should move on. But just make sure the rumors are true, and give your man a second chance if they are. Good luck dear.
2006-10-05 13:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very easy to spot a cocaine user. Look for symptoms such as playing with there nose, sniffling, hyperness, extremely edgy when things don't go there way, extra talkative, loss of apetite and the list goes on and on.
2006-10-07 18:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by jwurm99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will talk a lot and its kind of like a truth serum. His eyes will be dilated. He could be a little paranoid. The following day his nose might run. He could clench his teeth. Guys usually get really horny but have a hard time keeping a hard on.
2006-10-05 13:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cocaine makes you fill like you are on the top of the world till you come down ,look for wide eyes snotty noise, white powder around the nose and some very over talkative nature and sexually they believe they are the best and believe you really enjoy it.very sad
2006-10-05 13:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may chew gum alot.
Never Have money
Smoke many ciggarettes
Sniffle, seem to have stuffy nose
Cannot sexually perform (get hard)
Talk Alot
Cant Sleep
Let me know if you have any other questions.. these are some good hints he is on coke.
2006-10-05 13:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A the saying goes - It makes you fcuk like superman. They act the same just more talkative. You would notice it in the bedroom.
2006-10-05 13:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive done it, it gives u a overwhelming sense of confident, u think yr the don, some people can get aggressive on it, and extended use will send people paranoid, making them see things that arent there, its a scary thing i known people get sectioned cuz they have took it 2 far, my advice stay well clear of it
2006-10-05 13:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes...I did...but right now I'm feeling lucky that I wasn't with him when he was recently arrested
so I would suggest to you, unless you want to run the risk of that happening, I'd say find another guy that you don't "suspect" that uses.
2006-10-07 19:38:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋