i dont know what to do around him to make him like me too..please help me thuis is important, i neew a boyfriend!!!
thanks
2006-10-05 05:57:36 · 11 answers · asked by kelsey s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing scares boys away and turns them off like extreme neediness. And, that is your real problem. Your lack of relationship with boys isn't going to be solved until you first develop a good healthy relationship with yourself. Your neediness demonstrates that you aren't really accepting or comfortable with yourself. Work on that first. The reality is that, as soon as you have broken free of your neediness, boys will be falling over themselves to get to know you.
2006-10-05 07:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely be yourself. Dont try to be anyone that you arent, just to impress him. If he is a real good guy, he would be impressed by the real person you truly are.
Get to know him a little bit, if you have classes together or play sports together or are in the same clubs, talk to him, see what his interests are. If you find that you have something in common you both enjoy, then why not take advantage of it. For example, if you find out you both like football, why not invite him to go to a football game with you, or try to set up a fun game of tag football on a weekend.
Good luck!
2006-10-05 13:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mabry M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You don't need a boyfriend. You need to get A's and a hobby. As for making him like you, the right guy will see the real you and fall head over heels. Just be yourself. If he's the one then he's the one. Oh and no sex. Mentally you are not ready for that yet. Soooo not ready. I know you know that too.
2006-10-05 13:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a quality person? what makes him worthy of you? each man from the moement he shows interest is submitting an application to date you. you should have criteria. dating you is a PRIVILEGE. DO NOT give away the position of dating you to just any tom jack or harry who comes along just because you are desperate. guys pick up on this quite easily and will take advantage of you. you deserve better!
2006-10-05 13:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and talk to him and be friends first so u can really know who he really is then when yall really communicate then u pass a note over to him or pull him aside and ask him out.
2006-10-05 13:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Baby G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and be natural, let him notice you for who you really are and don't act a certain way just because you are trying to impress him, you don't want to send the wrong signal and regret it later when he realizes you are someone you really aren't!
2006-10-05 13:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u just have to tell him how u feel about him.be straight up.he will give u some kind of points for being bold.
2006-10-05 13:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by baby_brial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he really shy? If not let him make the first move...you cant "make" someone like you They do or they dont..if he is shy ask if you can sit with him at lunch to talk....good luck
2006-10-05 13:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
me as a guy can tell you that guys are easy, just flirt with him and the way he responds should be enough
2006-10-05 13:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by iwearshoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...whats his personality?
Quiet and shy guys( like me ) Like to talk about our intrests so talking would work
Anyone else...hell i don't know, I was pritty much alone in school -_-
2006-10-05 13:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by WW2 Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋